Russia is the home of the world’s most traditional wives who have the ideal looks, pleasant personalities and inner wisdom. Those who are thinking about marrying Russian women should keep reading right now.
Are you the leader in your relationship?
In the first place, you have to be the leader in your romantic relationship. Once you know a Russian lady reasonably well, you may discover that her values in dating and relationships include being with a masculine man. As Russian ladies are so traditional and feminine, they expect their boyfriends / husbands to be real men rather than weak men. Some Russian women prefer being the submissive role at home so that their husbands can be alpha men who are able to provide and protect – that’s men’s basic instinct. As a guy in a relationship, you either lead or be misled. End of story.
That means you would benefit from learning leadership skills and use those skills in your romantic relationship as well. From now on, you will call the shots and make important decisions, thereby making your Russian wife proud of you forever.
In the second place, so long as a Russian lady feels cherished by her man, she is very generous. By that I mean if you would like your Russian bride to be generous to you for the rest of your life, you have to make her feel that you truly cherish her.
For instance, you can tell her that she is pretty (as she spends lots of time getting ready in the morning so as to look good); you give her more attention and affection (as she is validated by male attention & you don’t want her to seek male attention elsewhere); you remind her of her advantages and strengths (as she truly, madly, deeply needs your positive reinforcement and encouragement).
When a woman feels cherished by her husband, she is very willing to give her all to him. It’s indeed a win-win situation, a mutually beneficial relationship that can last for a lifetime.
Understanding values in dating and romantic relationships also gives you another advantage – when you and your lady have the same values (or similar values), your relationship is more likely to be a mutually beneficial relationship that can be very sustainable. Note that unconditional love doesn’t exist in romantic relationships. I know this is the uncomfortable truth that most people don’t want to talk about, but it’s a true fact.
Thirdly, you should give your Russian wife a roadmap. After getting married, you can focus on your career or your business because your wife from Russia is happy to be a traditional wife who looks after the household while you can be busy with your own things. I’m not saying your wife must be a housewife forever; I mean she doesn’t feel judged if she chooses to be a housewife.
How to work with your wife:
If you would like your hardworking and intelligent Russian lady to be your business partner as well, you must give her a roadmap that supports your career plan. For example, if you run a business, she could be your operation manager or personal assistant. In this way, you only need to be the big-picture guy who thinks big, and she can deal with all the small details that need to be done in the business.
After finding out you and your Russian woman’s values in dating and relationships, you will know what she is good at work-wise too, so you can give her a more effective roadmap / blueprint.
In the West, if your wife is a western lady, you should discuss things with her before making big decisions. But if you marry a Slavic wife, she literally expects you to make major decisions as you are supposed to be a real man who is able to shoulder all responsibilities in terms of decision-making. Your foreign bride has faith in you and trusts your abilities. So, you can be a masculine man and the leader in the marriage. As a guy in a marriage, you either lead or be misled.
“Your Eastern European bride will dress up every day because she wants to look pretty. In contrast, western women only dress for comfort most of the time. Basically, Eastern European women get validation from normal male attention in serious relationships, while western women get beta orbiters’ attention on Instagram where women wear very little.”