Please don’t underestimate the power of external confidence. This is actually a very important level of confidence. Let me explain.
⦁ The importance of your external confidence:
Your external confidence directly influences how you feel and your inner world. Indeed, when you wear an amazing outfit, you feel like a million dollars, right? That’s actually very powerful and can help you attract Slavic women. Also, your external confidence is the first impression that you give people in every type of social interaction.
External confidence is all about how you walk, how you talk, the way you carry yourself, and so on. Now I’m going to deconstruct some specific aspects of a woman’s external confidence. Find the right hairstyle that suits you. Modern psychology indicates that when someone meets you for the first time, they notice your hair first. Ideally, you need to consult with a high-end hair stylist so that you will know which hairstyle suits you. If you’d like to save some money, you may consult with the high-end hair stylist and then go to a cheaper salon to get that hairstyle. Of course, it doesn’t mean you should only have one hairstyle for the rest of your life. In fact, it’s perfectly fine to change your hairstyle regularly so that you can experiment with something new.
Wear the best clothes that you can afford. Psychologists point out that the second thing that people will notice when they meet you is your clothes. Even though this guide isn’t about how to impress other people, understanding people’s psychology is a part of effective communication. Hopefully this makes sense.
Therefore, you would be well-advised to invest in some good clothes so that you can always feel like a million dollars and attract Slavic women effortlessly. Buy some nice clothes when they are on sale. Consult with a personal fashion stylist and find out what type of clothes suits you. This educational investment will bring you benefits for decades, because you only need to consult the fashion stylist once and then you will know what kind of clothes you should buy – this will save you lots of money in the long term.
⦁ The second level of confidence is your lifestyle confidence.
You can fake your external confidence. That’s not too hard to do. However, it’s harder to fake your lifestyle confidence. Now think of your life as a matrix: Which area of your life is working & which area of your life needs to be improved? Where do you actually derive your lifestyle confidence from? Be honest with yourself and figure out your answers.
Please allow me to discuss this topic in detail:
⦁ Your career:
Usually, a person spends approximately one third of their lifetime at work, so the importance of their career shouldn’t be ignored. Indeed, if you work from 9am to 5pm, that’s eight hours per day at work. You’d better make sure that you are actually happy with your career.
If you aren’t really happy with your career, consider changing your career. You can do this by starting a side hustle that excites you, something you are very passionate about.
When your side hustle brings you enough money, you can quit your job.
Here is how to identify your calling:
Please answer the following questions –
⦁ What did you enjoy doing when you were a child? (i.e. when you were 5 years old)
⦁ What’s obvious to you but it’s amazing to other people?
⦁ What do you love doing? What are you good at? What would the market pay for? (The intersection of these three areas is what you should do for a living.)
⦁ What are you curious about right now?
Your answers to these questions will reveal some fresh ideas quickly.
⦁ Your hobbies:
Your hobbies are absolutely paramount. When you are doing your hobby, you are literally spending quality time with yourself, because your hobby represents who you really are – you are not doing it for money; you are not doing it to impress anyone; you are doing it simply because you love it unconditionally. That’s how meaningful a hobby is.
Therefore, I’d like to encourage you to spend more time enjoying your hobby. Of course, if you can monetize your hobby, that’s great. But you don’t have to monetize your hobby. It’s perfectly fine if your hobby is purely a hobby.
“Scientists claim that when you are enjoying a true hobby, your body naturally produces nitric oxide which is also known as the fountain of youth because nitric oxide is a feel-good chemical which easily improves your health and wellbeing. It helps your body to rejuvenate effectively. That’s how powerful a hobby is.”