As an empowered Eastern European woman, you deserve true love that actually makes you happy, satisfied and inspired. This guide will reveal several untold secrets to finding the type of love that you desire. 😉 (By the way, if you are a man reading this blog post right now, this article will help you understand yourself better!)

  • Say yes to everything first, and then say no when you have options.

I know this sounds a bit bizarre, but please let me explain.

When you’re single and looking for a partner, you would be well-advised to say yes to every opportunity at the beginning. That means whenever you receive an invitation, you should say yes. It also means you need to say yes to the boxing class in the gym, your neighbor’s wine-tasting event and your co-worker’s 36th birthday party. Basically, as long as there is a chance for you to meet new people, you should say yes.

After a while, you’ll have options because chances are you’ll meet many potential candidates through your social circle. Now it’s time to be more discerning – when it comes to who you invest your time and energy in, you have to be careful.

In reality, most single women do the exact opposite: They often say no to new opportunities and potential candidates too quickly (e.g., “I don’t like his shirt” and “He didn’t smile enough”). Yet once they start to like someone, they invest too much and too early.

So, here is my suggestion: You must be open-minded initially so you can maximize your opportunities in the first place – this gives you abundance. However, in terms of who you actually invest in, you must remember this principle: invest and test.

By that I mean when you find a guy very attractive, you can invest in him a bit and observe his response. If he respects you and likes you, he will begin to invest in you more. Please note that you’d better invest in someone based on how much he invests in you, not how much you like him.

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  • Do the group version of the activities that you already do.

I’ve mentioned that you are supposed to maximize your chance of meeting new people at the beginning. But it doesn’t mean you have to do things that you dislike in order to meet someone suitable. The process of finding true love should be fun!

Let’s say you already love painting. Now instead of painting alone at home, perhaps you can join a painting class where you’ll meet like-minded individuals. Or if you like dancing, you can join a salsa or tango class rather than dance to the music in your living room. In this way, you’ll be able to meet lots of new people who share the same hobby with you. It is said that people who have the same hobbies oftentimes also have the same or similar values because a hobby is usually underpinned by a certain type of value. When two people have the same values (or at least their values are compatible), they can build a happy, healthy and sustainable relationship in the long term.

If you are an Eastern European woman looking for love, here are the top secrets to finding real love. If you are a single man looking for an Eastern European lady, please watch this space because we will keep updating this blog!