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So, you had the first date with a woman, and you think it went pretty well, but you are not getting the 2nd date. Why? Well, there are probably a range of reasons why you aren’t getting the 2nd date & I’m going to share my thoughts with you in this article today. Although I can’t guess exactly why you personally didn’t get that second date, I think this blog post will offer you some ideas as well as inspiration.
- Common mistake 1: You didn’t have enough interactions with her on the first date because of a bad strategy.
It’s very common for men to take women to the cinema for a movie date as the first date, but that’s a poor strategy because it doesn’t allow two people to have enough interactions on the date.
Another bad strategy is to take a woman to a comedy show for the first date. Both of you enjoy the comedy show and laugh at the jokes without communicating with each other sufficiently.
Without enough communication, she doesn’t feel deeply connected with you.
- Common mistake 2: Her interactions with you were too superficial on the first date.
In this online dating era, it’s normal for two people to meet each other in person quickly after chatting online for a while. I hope you finished your small talk with this lady while chatting with her on the internet because the first date has to be about something more meaningful and deeper. If the first date is full of small talk, that’s too superficial.
Also, you can’t seem too gamey on the first date. That means if all you do with her is flirting playfully, you might look too gamey. Consequently, she may not be able to feel the genuine connection with you.
As a result, I highly encourage you to combine flirting with deep & meaningful conversations – the first date needs a rhythm and some variety.
- Common mistake 3: You didn’t pay enough attention to your fashion and grooming on the first date.
I know most men would pay attention to their fashion and grooming before the first date, but I have noticed that a lot of men are unaware of their bad breath and other body odor. No matter how nice your clothes are, you can’t have bad breath or body odor on the first date!
On an online dating website, women can’t smell your bad breath or body odor, but they can smell pretty much everything on the first date. Therefore, you have to pay attention to these details – these are also a part of your grooming. Maybe this isn’t what you want to hear, but it might be true.
“Online dating gives you unlimited opportunities to meet and date high-value women. Are you making the most of these opportunities?”
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