Have you ever had this experience? – You listed a range of standards that the right partner must meet, but then you met someone attractive, all of those standards went out of the window because you are just attracted to this person – the standards on your list became irrelevant. In this blog article about dating Eastern European women, I’ll explain why attraction is not a choice. Hopefully you will like this blog post.
- The power of attractive behavior:
Attractive behavior is universally powerful in dating and relationships. Women logically think they should date men who have XYZ, but when they meet men who have attractive behavior, they are just attracted to these guys, no matter these men have XYZ or not.
For example, Luanne thought she should date tall men that are under 40 years of age, but when she met Jimmy, she fell in love with him, although Jimmy is relatively short and is over 40. How did that happen?
Well, Jimmy is a charismatic and dominant guy who has confidence and certainty. He doesn’t seek approval from other people because he knows his worth. Meanwhile, he is not arrogant; he is assertive. These qualities are significantly more powerful than height and age.
In contrast, John is a 30-year-old tall man. When women meet him, they would be interested at the beginning. But sadly, after interacting with him for a little while, women simply lose interest because he is needy and boring.
If you are interested in dating an Eastern European woman, be sure to focus on developing attractive behavior which is backed up by attractive qualities.
Which attractive behavior are you ready to cultivate this week?
- What’s more important to you, her appearance or her personality?
We all know that Eastern European women look better because they are generally slim and youthful – they take care of themselves very well.
But my advice for you is to pay more attention to her personality and pay less attention to her looks. Let me explain.
When I was a dating coach, I asked my male clients to write down a list of standards that the ideal partner must meet. Most of those standards were about women’s looks.
Here is the truth: If you want to marry someone and start a family with her, one day she will become older, and her looks will age. Therefore, you’d better fall in love with her personality in the first place.
Unshakeable confidence has to be backed up by solid competence.
