“I feel very overwhelmed by online dating because there are so many potential candidates,” says Charles, “I spend hours chatting online every day, but it doesn’t seem to be efficient. Is this going to be effective?”
- Know what you want.
Before joining an online dating website, please know exactly what you want. You’d better write a list of qualities that your ideal partner must have, e.g., she must be kind, intelligent, loyal, etc. Then figure out where she is & you should be there as well!
Let’s say you would like to meet someone that is kind, intelligent and loyal – you would be well-advised to join a dating site like SimplyDating.com where you are able to meet ladies from Eastern Europe who are more likely to be kind, intelligent and loyal, as women in western countries are probably not that loyal in the current dating climate.
Make sure you have a list of standards that the right person must meet & these standards can’t just be about a woman’s physical appearance because her physical appearance is merely superficial value – you need someone that has real value, i.e., her personality and qualities have to be amazing; your experience while interacting with her has to be positive.
Meanwhile, I’d like you to work on your value: Be sure to focus on personal development in this process by improving your fashion & grooming as well as your conversation skills, career, social life, etc., as a high-value woman wants to date a high-value man! 😊
- Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) VS Joy of Missing Out (JOMO):
If you have Fear of Missing Out (FOMO), that actually means you don’t know what you want. In that case, you spend a lot of time chatting with many women on various online dating websites. This journey becomes a mindless process which isn’t ideal.
By contrast, when you know what you are looking for, you wouldn’t have FOMO. Instead, you’ll have Joy of Missing Out (JOMO), i.e., because you know exactly what you want, you don’t waste time on different dating sites. You find the right dating website and chat with suitable candidates. This is the fast track to real love.
Likewise, when you have no plans for the weekend, you tend to waste time doing meaningless things and useless distractions. In contrast, when you have solid plans for the weekend, you know what you are doing, so you find satisfaction over the weekend! 😉
I wish you true love in this beautiful journey!
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