In international dating, you have to be an alpha guy because women from Eastern Europe are more traditional – they expect their men to be very alpha and masculine. A received a question from a guy who writes, “A Ukrainian woman approached me and everything went well. I asked her to go out with me in the end, but she turned me down. What did I do wrong?” Now I’m going to share with you the answer to this question here so that you’ll also know what to do if a Ukrainian lady likes you.
- If you don’t go after what you want, you will never have it.
Yes, she approached you, so she obviously likes you. But asking her to go out with you after a 20-minute conversation doesn’t necessarily mean you are going after what you want. Please let me explain.
When she approaches you, you should flirt with her as quickly as you can. In other words, when you see a green light, it’s your job to take action instead of waiting the green light to become red. For example, at the beginning of the interaction, you notice the conversation goes really well, so you can offer to shake hands with her and build a connection faster. Then you are flirty and fun! After that, you should find a way to have an instant date with her or keep in touch with her. That means it’s not about what you do after the 20-minute conversation; it’s about what you are doing within the 20-minute conversation. The process determines the outcome.
If you don’t ask, the answer will always be no. If you don’t step forward, you’ll always be in the same place.
- How do Ukrainian women experience attraction?
Female attraction is different from male attraction. Basically, male attraction is just like a switch – it’s either on or off. However, female attraction can be dialed up or down – it’s changing based on how she feels along the way.
Understanding this difference is absolutely crucial because it determines how you interact with women from now on.
With this understanding, you know how important it is to have outstanding conversation skills, including the ability to flirt with a woman and give her the right compliment at the right time.
“Ukrainian women are attracted to courageous, honest and genuine men.”
