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When you meet someone that you are attracted to, you don’t want to look needy. That’s exactly when disqualification can help you to achieve this effect, so now I’m going to explain what disqualification means and how it lessens the neediness in international dating. 😉
- What is disqualification?
Disqualification is something you say to disqualify yourself or the woman that you are attracted to, thereby introducing positives and negatives in a healthy way to the interaction. 😊
For example, you meet a lady at a party, and you find her very attractive. Instead of giving her many compliments, showing your interest 100% and putting her on a pedestal, you lessen your neediness by saying something like “Oh, I have to go in about 5 minutes” and “You and I will never get along”.
When you say “Oh, I have to go in about 5 minutes”, you are adding urgency to the communication. Now it makes sense for you to get her phone number so that you can continue the conversation after the party.
When you say, “You and I will never get along”, make sure your tone is playful. Now you are planting two seeds in her head: 1) She starts to imagine having a relationship with you. 2) She begins to wonder whether she can have you or not – your perceived challenge and perceived value are both higher. Psychologically, she wants to chase you.
- When should you use a disqualifier?
While chatting with a woman and she gives you a positive response, you should utilize a qualifier, e.g., “I like that.”
But if she doesn’t give you a positive response, you should totally use a disqualifier, e.g., “I don’t know if I should love you or hate you.”
This is also known as the push-pull technique in international dating. The lady experiences an emotional roller-coaster, so she is intrigued and fascinated.
I hope you’ve fully understood this important concept and can implement it in the right way when you meet the woman of your dreams!
“Qualifiers and disqualifiers help you to build tremendous attraction in international dating.”
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