When you are looking for a relationship, you’d better be equipped with some dating techniques that will transform your results. Today I’m going to share with you some tips for rapid attraction that you can try in the international dating arena. Enjoy!
- Be a good listener.
When you are on the first date with a woman, you should be a good listener. A common mistake that many men make is talking too much.
Don’t talk too much about yourself on the first date. You would be well-advised to let her talk about herself more. If you give her a great experience and make her feel amazing, she starts to ask you questions and become curious about you.
If she asks you a question, you give her a short answer and then comment on what she has said.
Gradually, you know a lot about her, but she knows a bit about you. You are mysterious and she is keen to know more about you. Then you begin to talk about yourself and convey your personality.
Let your personality shine!
Speaking of international dating, because you and your lady are from two different countries, there is always something interesting to talk about on each date.
- Give her an opportunity to qualify herself.
When you meet a woman for the first time, you should impress her through your elegant style, good manners and a great sense of humor.
Then when she begins to ask you questions such as “What do you do for a living?” and “Where are you from?”, you can relax and let her become more interested in you.
Remember, you are the confident alpha guy with options, so you are here to see whether she can meet your standards and respect your boundaries in international dating.
You may even ask her, “Do you have any hidden talent that would surprise me?”
That will definitely take the conversation to the next level!
Over time, you can reveal your hidden talent/interesting secret/etc. and surprise her in a positive way.
I’m sure she will like you more and more.
- Unresponsiveness under pressure is an attractive quality.
When she gives you a test in the conversation, be sure to remain unreactive and calm. Sometimes women might ask you, “Why do you wear this jacket?” Your unfazeable stillness will impress her because that means you can handle pressure confidently.
Don’t let any question or comment affect your mood. Your core confidence is solid because you are a high-value man.
The reason other people’s comments or questions can’t affect your mood is because you don’t derive confidence from external validation – you have your goals, your vision and your interests; you know what you want and what you are doing. You focus on what excites you. You derive confidence from various areas of your life and your inner confidence comes from radical self-love that you give yourself unconditionally.
“When you prioritize your career, your hobbies and interests, your passion becomes contagious. And your mood wouldn’t be easily affected by others’ questions or comments because you have better things to do/think about. This is an extremely attractive male quality that all women like. While you are looking for love, don’t ignore other areas of your life that deserve your attention.”
