Do you know how to handle potential problems in terms of dating? If you are not sure, these two methods will give you some inspiration. 😊
- Pre-emptively address a potential problem.
If you are an older guy looking to date a younger woman, the age gap might become a potential problem, so you can pre-emptively address this through saying something like, “I usually get along well with people that a bit older and more mature because they know what they want in life.”
In this way, you are introducing your frame early. Psychologically, she wants to prove that she is mature enough for you and isn’t too young for you.
As a result, you’ve turned the tables. Congratulations.
Remember: It’s easier for a woman to adopt a frame when you introduce it than when she has thought about the opposite for a very long time and you are trying to change her mind on it.
What kind of frame would you like to introduce early in the interactions with a woman that you like? Don’t lose your frame. Be very strong in your frame, boundaries, beliefs and opinions.
My dating advice for men: Having certainty is an attractive quality.
- The reactive way to handle objections:
If you’re an extrovert, chances are you go to many parties and interact with women quite often. Consequently, the lady that you have just started dating might accuse you of talking to many women.
In this situation, you should use the reactive way to handle this objection by saying something along the lines of, “I only talk to many ladies when I’m single. However, when I start a long-term relationship, I’m serious, so I don’t do that anymore. I take relationships very seriously. Even when I ended relationships with my ex-girlfriends in the past, we parted ways on good and friendly terms. Now I’m looking to build a serious, long-term relationship with you and I’m really looking forward to our shared blueprint for the future.”
My ultimate dating advice for men: Always remain calm and unreactive when she accuses you of doing something wrong. As long as you know the right techniques, you will have the confidence to handle objections like a boss. 😉
By the way, when you communicate with a woman that you’ve just started to date, you need to let her know that you are looking for important characteristics which are beyond physical beauty so that she knows she must meet your standards.
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