Are you preparing for the first date with a lady? This article will show you exactly how to create more attraction! 😉
- Step up into the leadership role.
Before the date, you must have a plan because you have to know what you are doing. Don’t ask her where she wants to go or what she wants to do for the date. You should plan the date in advance because you are the leader in the relationship.
Remember, women are attracted to leaders, not followers.
Leaders are masculine, strong, alpha men.
Note that if you are a strong leader, she will feel safe and relax into the romantic dating experience. 😊
- How to tell if she is attracted to you:
You’ve made decisions and plans for the date. You take her to a romantic restaurant for the first date. She says, “I love this restaurant” / “I really love the food here” / “You are so good at making these decisions” / “How did you know what I wanted?”
That means she is impressed. She enjoys dating a leader. Congratulations!

- End the date first.
Don’t make the date too long. Sometimes a very long date might make two people bored, whereas a relatively short date helps both of you remain excited.
If it’s a dinner date, perhaps you should end it within 2 hours. If it’s a coffee date, you’d better end it within 1 hour. Usually, I don’t recommend going to the movies as the first date because you wouldn’t be able to talk to each other while seeing a movie. Yes, you need to communicate with each other and get to know each other more when you start a relationship.
Ideally, you would be well-advised to end the date when it reaches the highlight. For example, as both of you are eating the delicious dessert, you tell her a very fascinating story, something exciting that you experienced before. When you finish the dessert, the story reaches its climax. Then you say, “OK. I’ll have to wake up early tomorrow, so let’s go now.”
Let her feel a bit unwilling to leave the venue. Make her remain curious about you. Keep her interested in you.
I hope this is your last first date – you’ll have a very happy long-term relationship.
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