If you are a single and introverted guy looking for a long-term relationship, you might have to change a few things in order to get a different result, a result that you desire.
- Evaluate how you interact with women.
When you meet an attractive woman, how do you communicate with her? Do you hold eye contact? Or do you look away immediately due to nervousness?
From now on, I’d like you to hold eye contact with every attractive woman that you meet and start conversations with them naturally. This doesn’t have to be complicated. You can simply look at her eyes and say hi.
Remember, you don’t need to start from asking women out for dates immediately. Right now, you can just practice having engaging conversations with them.
Of course, the most common mistake that men make while chatting with women is a lot of men are too considerate. For example, they often say, “Speaking of dinner tonight, I’ll go to whichever restaurant you like.” / “I’m free all week, so whenever suits you is fine.” – That’s a major mistake because these messages imply low status. Women are attracted to men who set and maintain boundaries & lead interactions with decisiveness. Therefore, you’d better prioritize honesty over pleasing.
If you are looking for a long-term relationship, be sure to express your opinions confidently when you interact with women. The right person will be attracted to your authentic personality.
- Update your wardrobe.
Your clothes communicate powerful messages about you before you start talking to a woman, so your style is paramount.
First of all, your clothes must fit you well. Don’t wear anything that’s too big, too long, too short or too tight.
Second, quality is more important than quantity. You would be well-advised to buy 5 great outfits instead of 20 low-quality outfits.
Next, your primary style should be a timeless, classic style because you want to attract the right woman (someone that is elegant and classy).
- Inject excitement into your social circle.
If you haven’t had a date for years and you are currently looking for a long-term relationship, it’s time to look at your social circle carefully.
Have you had any new friends in the previous two years? (If you haven’t had any new friends in a long time, perhaps now it’s the right time to go to the gym, join a class or attend a conference where you are able to meet like-minded people.)
Do you only meet and talk with people that you work with? (If your social circle consists of people that you work with only, that’s not really a social circle. Maybe you can be the connector and invite everyone that you know to something regularly. For instance, you can invite everyone you know to a weekly happy hour & ask them to bring their friends so that you can expand your social circle.)
Are your friends that you met when you were younger all married with children now so they don’t go out with you often anymore? (If you are an older guy, please own your age; don’t subtly apologize for it when you communicate with women.)
“Remain positive & embrace the most authentic version of yourself.”
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