If you have decided to go out more often and meet women so that you can find a relationship, my dating advice for men today will definitely help you.
- Brevity & a relaxed/casual attitude is much more impactful in conversation with ladies.
When you go to a party where you can meet new women, remember to approach them with a casual/relaxed attitude. Use concise statements rather than long statements when you start conversations with them – this helps women relax.
Let’s say you attend a party, and you want to join a group of women’s conversation. After you’ve said “Hi” to one of them, her response is a bit indifferent, and her friends become protective. In this situation, please don’t be fazed because you can re-engage them with value-adding statements later.
Note that the emphasis you use, the tonality and how you say something changes how you actually come across to other people.
Sometimes women go out not because they want to meet men, but because they just want to catch up with their friends for personal reasons. In this case, you shouldn’t take their negative responses personally because their indifference has nothing to do with you. They just don’t want to talk to strangers.
Because you are honing your social skills, you’d better have a growth mindset and assess your sticking points each time you go out, e.g., perhaps you ignored her friends when you interacted with her; maybe you were too quiet, so she couldn’t hear you with the pop music in the background.
Since this blog is all about dating advice for men, now I’d like to talk about exactly how to re-engage a woman in a social context.
- Re-engage a woman socially:
After you’ve said “Hello”, she didn’t talk to you much and she is still chatting with her friends. Now you have to remain calm and make statements that offer really good conversational value. Carefully listen to what they are talking about and offer something humorous or value-adding. Then they will want to listen to you.
You would be well-advised to get their attention by being interesting and engaging. For example, you can ask them open-ended questions.
Sometimes, when you simply listen to what they are talking about, they will start to talk to you because they want to be polite.
For instance, Jake went to a party where he started a conversation with two women. One of them just broke up with her boyfriend, so she hated everybody who came near. Jake came to them and was just standing there and remaining silent after saying “Good evening.” Ten minutes later, these two women told him that he is a very cool guy, so they opened him. Later on, the woman who broke up with her partner said, “I’m glad that you came to us.”
As I’m typing this paragraph right now, Jake and this lady are in a romantic relationship.
“I hope my dating advice for men today is value-adding.”
