How charismatic are you? Research shows that charismatic men are more attractive, so they are happier men in relationships. In this blog article, I’ll show you how to be a more charismatic guy when you are on a date with a Ukrainian woman. 😊
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Don’t ask too many questions on a date.
Asking three questions in a row is boring because it means you have no value to offer while chatting with her. Let’s have a look at this example:
HIM: What do you do for a living?
HER: I’m a columnist for a lifestyle magazine.
HIM: What do you write about?
HER: I write about interior design.
HIM: What do you like doing after work?
HER: I like reading books.
This is so boring because he provides no value-offering information in this interaction. If you would like to attract a Ukrainian woman and keep her interested in you & attracted to you, you have to ask fewer questions and say more interesting & engaging statements. 😉
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How to become more charismatic on the date:
A really good way to change the dynamics is to add value to the discussion. Here is an example:
HIM: What do you do for a living?
HER: I’m a columnist for a lifestyle magazine.
HIM: I didn’t know you’re so evil. No. I’m just kidding. I know some journalists who write for magazines & newspapers, and they told me that they can’t always write about the truth. But anyway, journalism is a fascinating profession. I guess maybe a columnist is different from a journalist.
In this example, he introduces humor to the conversation. He also adds some insights and perspectives to her answer. He gives her the opportunity to explain herself without asking another question.
Another amazing technique is telling stories on the date because when you tell her a wonderful story, you are adding value and building comfort at the same time.
“Value and comfort are both very important elements in a relationship with a Ukrainian woman, so make sure you have both of them!”
