There are certain universal attractive male qualities that all Ukrainian women admire. What are they?
- Being a masculine leader is very attractive.
When you go out with a Ukrainian woman, she expects you to be a leader. For example, you should know where to go and what to do on a date. You make plans in advance for each date. You are the masculine leader in the interaction.
Don’t ask her, “Where should we go for our next date?” You’d better say, “Let’s go to XYZ coffee shop this Wednesday because the music is amazing there!”
- Be strong in your boundaries, opinions and beliefs.
If a woman is chatting with someone else on the phone when she is on the first date with you, you need to say something along the lines of, “Look, I’ve put my phone down because I respect you. If you have an important business discussion, you can tell me first. I can understand that. But if you are just the kind of person who simply takes phone calls like that, I don’t really think it’s cool.”
She will find you very attractive!
- Having passion or drive is important.
A man who complains about his job and has no goal in life is unattractive.
In contrast, if you say, “I’m very passionate about what I do at work…. I’m learning boxing at the gym these days. It’s fun!”, your passion becomes contagious – she will feel passionate about life as well.
By the way, if you actually dislike your job, that’s okay. Be sure to have a plan and find something that you are passionate about in your spare time.
- Being busy is an attractive behavior.
If you tell her that you can meet her at any time of the week because you have nothing going on in your life, that’s not attractive.
By contrast, if you are busy because you have a business meeting tomorrow, a concert to go to on Friday and a birthday party to attend on Saturday, she has to consider your schedule and find a suitable time to meet you for a date – she likes you more.
Of course, don’t pretend to be busy if you are not. Actually build an exciting lifestyle that you are proud of.
- Worldliness, wisdom and intelligence = attractiveness
If you are older than a Ukrainian woman, you would be well-advised to show more wisdom and worldliness so that she will really admire you.
But if you and your lady don’t have an age gap, you need to show more intelligence so she’ll be attracted to you even more.
For instance, you can talk about books that you’ve read and ask if she has read those books, too.
“When she asks why you wear that shirt/why you watch Japanese anime/etc., be sure to remain unreactive to test/pressure – that’s another attractive male quality.”
