Some men are anxious when it comes to meeting women and talking to women. Since this is a blog about safer dating, I’d like to minimize your anxiety and make you feel confident, safe and relaxed. I’m sure a sense of security will make you more attractive. ❤️
- Women notice your body language before you talk to them.
In a social environment, women actually notice your body language before you start conversations with them, so your confident body language is absolutely paramount!
Indeed, when you go to a party, single women would definitely pay attention to your body language because they can see how you present yourself and feel your presence. Never underestimate women’s intuition. 😉
While you are attending a party, please keep things moving by interacting with different people. Don’t stand there without knowing what to do.
Also, don’t put your hands in your pocket or fidgeting non-stop. When you are drinking something, don’t sip too fast. It’s perfectly fine to take a sip of the drink and put it down.
If you need to have a look at your phone or respond to a text message, do that naturally and when it’s done, please put your phone back to your pocket. Don’t look at your phone all the time!
Remember: The first impression is of vital importance. 😊

If you don’t drink alcohol, that’s okay. But honestly, many women won’t trust you if you don’t drink alcohol at all at parties where drinking some alcohol is expected.
Here are two examples:
- Michael went to a bar and ordered a glass of milk. Then he was wondering why women didn’t respond very well when he approached them. (He looked strange in the bar.)
- Len went to a pub and was drinking water only. His interactions with women were okay until women noticed that he was only drinking water all the time. (Women felt that something was wrong.)
Safer dating advice: Women don’t like alcoholics, but drinking a little bit alcohol is normal at social events.
Perhaps you can have a cocktail or a glass of wine when you are in a social context so that you will look more socially acceptable – women will trust you more.
“This blog offers advice about safer dating, female psychology, communication skills and romantic relationships.”