The dynamic in dating is usually like this: one person is screening, whereas the other person is chasing. So how can you attract Ukrainian women by creating genuine desire instead of chasing them?
- The power of disqualification:
Many women would say things like, “I’m the kind of woman who would take it slow.” In other words, they are the screener in the interaction.
Now I’d like you to have the screener’s frame – you disqualify a woman from being the prize & position yourself as the screener in the dynamic. For example, when you meet a woman, you can playfully say, “I’m the kind of guy who would take it slow.” Now you become the screener. Remember, your playful tone is very important.
Another impactful way to deliver disqualifying statements is aloofness. For instance, you casually say, “You and I will not get along. Anyway, today I finished reading Britney Spears’ memoir – her childhood stories are fascinating.”
Note that high-value, attractive women are accustomed to being treated like princesses because men put them on a pedestal all the time. Therefore, if you don’t put her on a pedestal, she finds this experience very refreshing. Now she wants to know why you are non-needy – you must be a high-value, abundant guy with many options – you don’t need her, and you have high standards. 😊
- You must hold a Ukrainian woman to higher standards.
There are many attractive women out there. Indeed, if you walk around in your local city every day for a week, you’ll surely see a lot of attractive women that you would like to date. And if they have good personality, you’ll be happy to wife them up. Clearly, there are options, so you shouldn’t have the scarcity mindset.
Apart from a woman’s physical appearance, you must evaluate her on her personality and qualities. Which values are important to you? If you highly value family, knowledge, experience, travel and adventure, your ideal partner should share the same values with you. Hence, you’d better find out whether the Ukrainian woman that you are chatting with actually have compatible values or not before deciding she is the right person for you. That is to say, she still has a lot to prove when you meet her for the first time.
Please don’t lose the screener’s frame when you interact with women!
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