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Modern men who are successful in their love lives have elite level confidence. But how can we achieve that? Let’s have a look at the strategies that we are able to implement in order to improve every area of our lives, including dating and relationships!
- The importance of the inner core that is not affected by external factors at all:
In psychology, the inner core refers to internal confidence that you derive from self-love, i.e., no matter what, you know your true worth and you give yourself unconditional love at all times. In this way, you are not affected by external factors when it comes to your confidence. 😊
External factors such as your lifestyle and how you look are not a part of your inner core.
Now I’d like to make it very clear: Having a strong inner core doesn’t just mean you still feel okay when external factors go wrong. In fact, having a strong inner core means external factors can’t make you happy either. (It’s a bit like Buddhism.) Let me explain.
If external factors can make you happy (driving a fancy car, living in a big house, etc.), that means your inner core is actually strongly influenced by external factors. In this case, when you don’t have amazing external factors, your inner core will be affected as well. In other words, if external factors are not good, you would feel negative.
Therefore, all of your happiness should be derived from within. For example, when you learn something new, you feel happy; when you focus on your values, you feel happy.
With this mindset, a breakup won’t destroy you. 😉
Now I’d like you to imagine living in a bubble, i.e., everywhere you go, there is a bubble protecting you. As a result, external factors outside this bubble don’t play a part in your inner world. You have a very confident and strong inner core.
- What really makes you happy?
Personally, wearing expensive jewelry and high-end clothes doesn’t make me happier. However, reading a great book and learning something enlightening makes me genuinely happy! Every time I learn something meaningful, I feel significantly happier because knowledge is my No. 1 value.
Please figure out your value system and prioritize your important values. That’s exactly how to become the best version of yourself. Then you’ll surely be a very attractive modern man in dating and relationships.
“Talking about dating and relationships, modern men would be well-advised to build a strong and confident inner core in the first place.”
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