I recently spoke to a Ukrainian lady who is in a very happy relationship. She has shared her insights into the world of love with us, so let’s look at her thoughts on dating & you will surely learn something valuable from her input. 😊
Remember: Men love romance! (advice for Ukrainian women looking for love)
Let’s say you are a university student and you’ve met a guy on a dating site. If he sends you a text message in the middle of the day, you can send this message to him, “I’m not supposed to text while I’m studying in the library, but you keep tempting me to pull out my mobile phone. I knew you were trouble 😉” Now you imply that he is trouble in a good way, so he will begin to have romantic thoughts….
If you have a full-time job and you are very busy, sometimes you may not be able to respond to his text messages quickly. So, next time when he sends you a message along the lines of, “Oh, it seems that you are not looking at your phone today. Are you busy now?”, you send this message to him, “Aww. Did you miss me? I miss you, too 😉” Maybe he was just asking you a random question, but now he will begin to have very romantic thoughts….
Here is another example:
HIM: “I’m in a coffeehouse right now and the beautiful music reminds me of you…”
YOU: “Aww. Does that mean you have a full-on crush on me? 😀”
One more example:
HIM: “I’ve been waiting for your text message all day. Are you very busy today?”
YOU: “Indeed, I’m busy today. I almost never had time to talk to anyone today. Lucky for you – I always respond to cute guys’ messages :-D”
Make sure the first date always happens in a public place (dating safety advice for both men and women).
No matter you are a man or a woman, your safety is the No. 1 priority in your life, so the first date must happen in a public place such as a restaurant or a coffee shop. I think a coffee shop is even better because it allows the first date to be shortish. Let’s say this individual is dull and boring, you can end the coffee date early, but if this person is amazing, you can make the coffee date longer. In contrast, a dinner date in a fancy restaurant means you must sit there for hours, no matter you like that person or not. Sad!
If you feel nervous before the first date, you can read a romantic story or see a romantic film before going out for the date. This will help you have the right headspace when you are on the date. You need to be totally relaxed!
It’s time to be the best version of yourself and play at an extraordinary level in your life. You can act as if you are already the person you want to become. This will make you more confident on the date.
Also, if you want to be extra safe, you can tell your family and friends where you are before you go out for the date. Your mobile phone’s battery can’t be dead so you are able to call somebody when necessary.
Even if the first date is absolutely safe, you may still want to contact your family and friends so that you can end the first date sooner because this person is not interesting enough. So, you may send a message to a friend, “Please call me right now so that I can leave this place by faking an emergency. Thank you.”
I would argue that if you do not know this individual well, the first date has to happen in a venue that you are very familiar with. For example, you met somebody on the internet and you go out for the first date. You would be well-advised to go to a pub that you are familiar with so that if things go wrong, you can easily find the exit and leave.
What’s more, please do not go home with this individual if you aren’t ready. Note that your intuition is always right, so you should trust your intuition. Do not talk yourself out of your intuition which is a gift from your DNA. If you feel something is a bit off, it is off. You do not need more evidence to prove that. Your gut feeling is always right. So, if you don’t want to go home with that person, simply say no and leave!
Internet dating is a useful tool in the dating department.
A dating site has a matchmaking algorithm which is absent in real life. This is something that we need to acknowledge and appreciate.
Indeed, in real life, you simply depend on destiny and wait for opportunities to come. Maybe you are smart enough to create opportunities for yourself, but offline dating alone isn’t enough in today’s day and age when everyone is spending so much time online. You would be well-advised to combine online dating with offline dating effectively so that you can find the fast-track to a satisfying love life!
Actually, a reliable dating site like SimplyDating.com can introduce you to high-quality Ukrainian ladies that you wouldn’t meet in real life. What’s more, you can have a video chat with your lady online and there is a translation service as well. Better still, Ukrainian women on SimplyDating.com are proactively learning and improving their English every day.
If you rely on your social circle in order to find love, you may waste too much time because you won’t have quantity in the first place. By that I mean you need to have options before you decide which woman is the right candidate, right?
By contrast, you can meet a large number of suitable candidates on a dating site like SimplyDating.com, so you will be able to have abundance in the dating department, thereby finding the right person faster.
Yes, Internet dating saves you lots of time. You don’t need to go to dinner parties and meet new people every weekend. When you join a dating site, you can meet potential partners immediately, and then you will be able to select the right person in record time.
How to be a creative dater:
In order to be an attractive person, you should feel inspired most of the time. Inspiration can come from blog articles, books, podcasts, YouTube videos, and so on.
An attractive dater is a positive influence who can bring up the mood of people around them. A creative dater always has new movies, books, ideas, concepts and theories they have recently discovered. Having fresh input is very attractive and intriguing.
“Have the ability to act and think independently without following what’s popular. You are the leader in your life.”