Are you worried about running out of things to say on a date with an Eastern European woman? This article will solve that problem for you!
- Pre-work before you meet Eastern European women:
Before you meet your candidates, you need to do some pre-work. Write down a list of standards that the right person must meet apart from physical attractiveness, e.g., important qualities that she should have – honesty, kindness, curiosity and ambition.
When you meet a woman for a date, the conversation won’t be a random chat about any topic without any purpose in mind. You’ll direct the conversation towards you finding out the answers to all those key questions about your standards and getting an idea of who she really is.
- How to reveal interesting things about yourself on a date:
Don’t ask her too many questions because you don’t want to look needy.
Instead, talk naturally by revealing things about yourself if she hasn’t asked you any question within the first ten minutes of the first date. Here is an example:
HIM: “What do you enjoy doing in your free time?”
HER: “I like going to concerts.”
HIM: “Well, I went to concerts quite often when I was in my twenties. Last week I had just had a fabulous vacation, but this week I was back to work immediately. Working for 40 hours a week in a dull office has wiped out all the positive emotions from the vacation, so I think I probably should make some major changes in my life by doing something fun just to relax.”
Now she wants to ask him questions such as “Where did you go for the vacation?” and “What do you do?” Therefore, she will switch into questioner mode.
- Show your intelligence, worldliness and wisdom.
Indeed, making a deep and meaningful comment or statement regarding something that she is genuinely interested in according to the book she is reading, the job she has or a hobby she enjoys is powerful. Don’t be afraid to disagree with her. Tactfully challenge her viewpoints or assumptions while presenting a wonderful counter view which is very compelling to her. She will be impressed when you talk about a life lesson that you’ve learned. She wants to be enlightened, so please give her something that makes her think deeply. Remember, Eastern European women are attracted to men who are more intelligent than them. So, if you are showing lots of intelligence and wisdom, she will admire you.
“On the first date with a woman, you can talk more about topics that she is passionate about and skip topics that she isn’t interested in.”
