This is a common situation: A man started a relationship with a woman who admired him tremendously because his value was high at the beginning. But over time, he has lost his value in the relationship, so she left him. Now I’m going to share with you the top secrets to increasing your value in a romantic relationship.
At the beginning of an international relationship, don’t be impressed by things that she hasn’t done yet.
Let’s take a look at two conversations below.
Conversation 1: On the first date
HIM: What are you going to study at university?
HER: English Literature.
HIM: Wow. You must be very smart! (He is very impressed.)
Conversation 2: On the first date
HIM: What are you going to study?
HER: English Literature.
HIM: Why do you want to study English Literature? (He is just curious. He isn’t impressed yet because this is just her plan & she hasn’t done it yet.)
Being in a relationship is the best way to approach personal development.
The guy in the first conversation has lower value because he is even impressed by things that she hasn’t done yet. In contrast, the guy in the second conversation has higher value because he knows this is just what she says now & he can only be impressed if she has already done something amazing.
If you would like to keep a woman in your life, you have to make personal development a priority in your life. That means you must build your confidence, keep learning new knowledge and skills & learn more about how this world works. In other words, it’s your responsibility to actually become a high-value man. (This isn’t simply about increasing your perceived value.)
In an international relationship, you should give your partner some space to invest in this relationship. Remember, you deserve love, affection and attention. While you are having a conversation with her, be sure to let her talk a bit more. Let her ask you questions.
When she invests in you emotionally, she cherishes this international relationship even more, because she doesn’t want to lose what she has already invested in.
“Please note that this blog is about how to approach international dating safely.”
