Nowadays many men believe that they shouldn’t settle down with a woman too soon because of social conditioning which is teaching men to increase their “perceived value” and “perceived challenge”. However, if you are genuinely interested in building a serious relationship with someone, you would be ill-advised to play the field without having a commitment. So, today’s safer dating advice for you is to stop making idiotic mistakes that a lot of modern men make these days.
- Are you trying to change her mind or her mood?
When most men argue with their partners, they try to change their partners’ mind. That’s exactly why most arguments take couples nowhere, so it’s the No. 1 mistake in relationships.
The right approach is to change her mood rather than her mind. Interestingly, when you change her mood, she will probably change her mind later on organically. And that’s exactly what you want.
Indeed, when her mood is changed, she is willing to have honest conversations calmly and listen to you attentively. Then you can communicate with her effectively.
- Words VS Actions:
After changing her mind, please don’t use words to convince her. Let’s say you actually would like to create a long-term relationship with her. Don’t have a serious conversation about this topic. Instead, you’d better use your actions to show her that this is a long-term relationship. If she wants to have a serious conversation about this, that’s fine. But your principle is to prioritize actions rather than words.
Sadly, most men make this mistake – in their reality, words are more important than actions, although logically, they know actions are much more paramount than words.
- Logic VS Emotions:
The next mistake that a large number of men make is their relationships are logically thrilling and emotionally safe. That means they don’t give women a commitment, so logically, their relationships seem thrilling. Meanwhile, they don’t give women an emotional roller-coaster experience, so their relationships are emotionally safe. Consequently, their love lives are boring, predictable and unproductive.
Our safer dating advice for you is to do the opposite: Your ideal relationship should be logically safe and emotionally thrilling. That is to say, you’d better give her a solid commitment and provide her with an emotional roller-coaster so that she has relationship certainty while enjoying being with you.
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