It’s very normal and extremely common to have fear of rejection. This is the main reason why some men suffer from dating anxiety: They can’t start a conversation with an attractive woman; they feel incredibly nervous before going out for the first date with someone new; they are anxious in general when it comes to dating and relationships. Therefore, today’s safer dating blog post is all about the art of turning around a rejection.
- She rejected the opener, not you.
When you start a conversation with a woman and she gives you a rejection, she actually rejects the opener rather than you because she doesn’t know you.
After understanding this key idea, you can see rejection isn’t scary because it has nothing to do with your value. It’s all about your approach.
How do you start a conversation with a woman that you are attracted to? Do you talk about the weather? Do you ask for her opinion? Do you directly tell her that she is beautiful and you would like to meet her?
Think about which opener has worked for you and which opener hasn’t worked at all. Then do what works for you.
I know my safer dating advice is very simple. Honestly, we don’t need to make things more complicated than they really are.
- A reaction is better than none.
If she rejects you, that’s feedback. That’s much better than having no reaction from her – she could look at her phone and ignore you completely. A reaction is actually better than none.
In fact, I would argue that if you do things right, you should be rejected because having no rejection literally means reaching for the low-hanging fruit – you are not trying your best.
That is to say, what should keep you awake at night isn’t the rejection; what should keep you awake at night is not trying in the first place.
Isn’t this new mindset liberating?
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“Focus your energy on what went well instead of on turning a bad situation around. Positivity attracts more positivity.”
