When you meet a woman and you are attracted to her, the last thing you want is the very frustrating friend-zone, right? Hence, please bookmark this blog post so that you can refer to this list at any time in the future. I’m sure you won’t be friend-zoned if you deliver these lines correctly. Since most men who visit this website are interested in international dating, I do hope you’ll find a happy international relationship soon.
- “You are actually kind of cute.”
While meeting a woman for the first time, please don’t give your power away. In fact, she hasn’t even proven herself yet, so you have to qualify her. Does she have the qualities that you like? Can she meet your standards? Does she respect your boundaries?
Therefore, at this stage, you can say, “You are actually kind of cute”. As a result, she knows you find her quite attractive, but she is not entirely sure. Note that when a woman isn’t sure whether she can have you, she psychologically wants to chase you.
This technique is also known as ‘push-pull’: “actually” and “kind of” indicate ‘push’, whereas “cute” indicates ‘pull’. With this combination, you keep her off-balance to some degree, and she is curious about you.
A similar line is “You are actually pretty okay. I didn’t expect to like you so much at first”. This line is also a push-pull technique which makes a woman want to prove herself to you. Just let her win you over.
- “Stop looking at me like that.”
Say it playfully. Now she knows you are flirting with her, so you are already not in the hopeless friend-zone.
Making the interaction non-platonic is paramount. This paradigm makes you an attractive man because the conversation is obviously man-to-woman.
Of course, you can also say, “You have the most adorable expressions”. Be fun and flirty. You are here to be her romantic partner and start an international relationship.
If you want to be even more spontaneous and flirtatious, you can even say, “Please stop being so cute.”
Please note that the progression is critical: You begin the interaction with a standard conversation, and then you gradually add flirting to the dynamics because you are very well-calibrated.
Usually, if you start a conversation by directly flirting with a woman, you would look uncalibrated, so clearly, that’s not a good strategy.
Make it progressive. Be calm and confident. Show her good value. I’m sure you can create a meaningful international relationship that will make you very, very happy and satisfied.
“When you are able to introduce non-platonic relevance to a conversation, you are not in the friend-zone.”
