If you are interested in international dating, you might want to date a woman from Eastern Europe. As English is not her first language, sometimes communication might not be 100% perfect, which means chances are she should keep learning English and you have to better your dating skills to make the connection stronger. 😉
- Attract her by disqualifying her once or twice.
When you meet an eligible single lady, it’s your job to make the interaction fun and flirty. You can flirt with her by disqualifying her, “This will never work between us.” (Say it with a joking tone.) Now in her head, you are planting the seed of having a relationship with her. But because you’ve said “This will never work”, she doesn’t know whether she can have you, so psychologically, your perceived value is higher. Emotionally, she may want to chase you.
Note that you can only disqualify her once or twice (no more than twice) because if you overdo it, she will actually believe that she can’t have you at all.
This technique is also known as the push-pull technique. However, please don’t become too technical when it comes to international dating & relationships because being too technical makes you lose the soul of attraction.
Remember: dating is supposed to be an enjoyable process. That’s why it’s called dating rather than work.
- The 10% method:
One of my friends is a comedian who makes a living through stand-up comedy. He writes jokes at home before he experiments with these jokes in front of a live audience. He told me that he utilizes the 10% method, i.e., every time he stands in front of a live audience, he uses 90% of his previous materials that have been tried and proven to be successful & 10% of his content is new jokes that need to be tested. That’s exactly how he keeps evolving in his career. He learned this method from his mentor.
Interestingly, this method can be implemented in international dating as well. When chatting with a woman, you should do whatever already works for you 90% of the time & try new techniques 10% of the time. Well, if you read this blog often, you will learn many new techniques that will fundamentally transform your love life. 😊
