What’s your value in a woman’s eyes when it comes to dating? Basically, value is her level of attraction towards you. This can be done by increasing your perceived challenge, i.e., she is not sure whether she can have you. But having value alone might make you look intimidating, so you also need to build comfort, i.e. a woman’s level of safety and trust with you. Both value and comfort are paramount if you would like to attract an Eastern European woman.
- How to establish yourself as high value enough to be a major win for a woman:
Psychologically, people place much more value on what they have to work for and earn than things that are given to them for free. Let’s look at this scenario:
You worked really hard and saved money to buy a luxury car. Meanwhile, someone has given you the same car for free, so now you have 2 luxury cars. Which car has more value and more meaning from your perspective? Of course, you value the car that you have worked hard for, right?
Likewise, if a woman has worked hard for you, she would value you more as well! For example, you can give a woman a compliment based on two different qualities that she has so that she feels like she has earned your interest, e.g., “I really like the fact that you are an intelligent lecturer at university and a fascinating dancer in the dance studio, too.” Now she feels like she has worked hard in different aspects of her life; as a result, she has earned your genuine interest in her beyond her initial beauty.
- You must create a high-value narrative of who you really are when you meet an Eastern European woman.
When you meet an Eastern European woman, it’s your responsibility to create a high-value ‘narrative’ of who you are before you qualify her. That means you have to convey your personality via flirting with her and give her some uncertainty so that she doesn’t know if she can have you or not. Then she can tell her friends something about you because she has a high-value narrative of who you are.
Next, you can qualify her by asking something along the lines of, “I know you are a lecturer at university – you are intelligent. So, I’m curious – can you cook?”
Now she knows that she has to earn your interest and work hard for you. She really wants to give you the right answer that can impress you.
“What are you going to do in order to be the ultimate high-value guy?”
