Today I interviewed John S., an American man who is married to a beautiful Ukrainian wife. He told me his personal experiences in this journey and some wisdom in life. I think sharing his input will be very valuable on this blog.

  • John was married to an American woman when he was in his 20s.

Now John is 38 years old. When he was 25, he married an American woman. But that marriage only lasted for 4 years. They got a divorce when he was 29 years old.

This is what he learned from his first marriage:

  1. His ex-wife was slim before getting married. But after the wedding, she became so relaxed that she decided to put on weight by not going to the gym and eating whatever she wanted to eat. In western culture, single women want to know “how to secure the ring”. After getting the ring, a typical western woman becomes complacent.
  2. His ex-wife’s career ambition is an obstacle in that marriage because she worked 90 hours a week and didn’t value quality time with John. Due to the popularity of feminism, western women are conditioned to believe that their career success is very, very, very important. Consequently, they may ignore their family life.
  3. His ex-wife doesn’t believe in traditionalism and patriarchy. Whenever John was trying to convince her to do something, she argued that John has “toxic masculinity”.

In the end, John and his American wife got a divorce because these two people’s value systems are incompatible, although they are both Americans.

  • John decided to marry a Ukrainian bride.

After doing extensive research on the Internet, John discovered Roosh V’s blog and forum which talk about dating Eastern European women. He realized that Ukrainian women are the most attractive women in the world.

In fact, John considered dating Asian women previously, but then he changed his mind because he still prefers Caucasian women (John is also Caucasian, so that’s fair enough). No pun intended. Remember: attraction is not a choice. John can’t logically choose to be attracted to someone, so this isn’t racist. John can only feel attracted to Caucasian women, and he figured out that Ukrainian women have the best looks.

More importantly, Ukrainian ladies have the best qualities in terms of personality as well. For instance, most women from Ukraine highly value family, education, virtue and motherhood. They don’t sleep around. They don’t waste money. They don’t compete with their men.

So, John was thinking about how to meet ladies from Ukraine. Initially, he was planning to live in Ukraine for a year or two. But that requires him to quit his high-profile job in Los Angeles; therefore, it wasn’t practical. John loves his job and doesn’t want to move to Ukraine.

Many western men teach English in Ukraine or run online businesses so that they can meet women in Ukraine (they learned that from Roosh V, the godfather of international dating). Since John doesn’t want to become an English teacher and isn’t interested in running an Internet business, he has figured out something else – he joined Simply Dating, an international dating website which introduces Ukrainian brides to western men.

“Joining Simply Dating is the short-cut because this dating site makes international dating very straightforward,” says John S., “I don’t want to spend several years in Ukraine, so I think the best way to meet someone suitable is to join an international dating site. After doing some research online, I have chosen because it’s a reputable and reliable dating site which introduces Eastern European brides to western men.”

  • How does Simply Dating work?

Creating a dating profile is nice and easy. Within a few minutes, your dating profile is ready and you can browse female candidates’ profiles immediately. Then you choose which member you’d like to talk to and send her a message.

Of course, an international dating site isn’t a charity (it’s a business), so you shouldn’t expect Simply Dating to be a free service. You are asking them to find a Ukrainian wife for you, so it shouldn’t be free.

Simply Dating also allows members to have video chat. Many members attend online speed dating events and use matchmaking services on their platform.

“I think the best feature is the 24/7 online support,” says John S., “Because I told the customer service team exactly what I was looking for, they helped me to find the right candidate fairly quickly.”

When online daters are on Simply Dating, they are not supposed to exchange their contact details directly without knowing each other reasonably well. According to the dating site’s policy, women can’t give their contact details to men without knowing men well, and all initial meetups between two members should be arranged by the dating website. This is the ideal way to ensure women’s safety.

Therefore, John bought an international tour package from Simply Dating and went to Ukraine to meet his lady. Because Simply Dating is a professional dating service, they even helped John to book flight, accommodation, translator, and so forth. It’s a comprehensive service which helps western men to meet women in Ukrainedirectly.

John met Olga in Kiev in December 2018 with the help of Simply Dating. Within six months, they got married. Now John and Olga live in Los Angeles. They are happily married.

  • John’s advice for men:

  1. If you aren’t serious, you shouldn’t join Simply Dating because Simply Dating is all about helping western men and Ukrainian women find serious, long-term and meaningful relationships.
  2. If you are serious, you should join Simply Dating because it’s a legitimate, reputable and trustworthy business. John has met Simply Dating team in their physical office and he was very impressed by their professionalism, friendliness and kindness.
  3. When your Ukrainian bride moves to America, she may realize that she is actually a very high-value woman because most women in America are overweight and unattractive, and then your Ukrainian wife may change her mindset and think, “I could have done better than this”. John is a high-profile PR executive in Los Angeles, so all of his friends are high-value men who are married to gorgeous women. Therefore, it’s not a problem for John – Olga can see that all of John’s friends’ wives are attractive women, so Olga wants to improve herself every day.

Dating is harder in western countries nowadays. For example, Street Attraction was attacked by BBC a few days ago. Street Attraction is an organization that teaches western men how to approach women in the street. Their dating coaches teach western men how to build a genuine connection with women in the day time. But a journalist from BBC pretended to be their client and attended their boot camp. Then the journalist deliberately made those dating coaches look very bad in the press, thereby shutting down their business entirely. Hence, online dating is probably the only way to meet women nowadays.

“If you haven’t figured out your love life yet and you are already in your 30s, you should totally consider marrying a Ukrainian mail-order bride because that’s the fast-track to a happy marriage.”