Introverts have many advantages. Research shows that the best salespeople in the world are all introverts because a lot of extroverts are not very good at listening to others (in sales, listening to the customer and understanding the customer’s motivations & emotions are extremely important). In contrast, introverts are often pretty good at actively listening to the customer, thereby figuring out what motivates the customer as well as how the customer feels more accurately. According to dating coaches, although extroverts look more sociable, introverts tend to have high-quality relationships. Therefore, if you are an introvert, please don’t worry – you can find true love in international dating!
- Introverts are actually better in conversations because introverts oftentimes have deep and meaningful conversations.
I recommend quiet venues to introverts who are planning their dates because introverts thrive at quiet venues where people can hear conversations clearly.
Personally, I’m an introvert and I don’t like going to noisy places such as pubs and nightclubs. I prefer romantic restaurants and cafes where I can hear conversations. This is true no matter I’m going out for a date or simply hanging out with friends.
Speaking of conversations on a date, a good conversation doesn’t need to be complicated; it only needs curiosity. You should be curious about how you feel, who this person is, why you are going out for a date with this person, and so on.
You’d better give your date the energy that you would like to receive yourself. For example, if you would love to receive high energy, you have to give your date high energy first. Lead with your energy!
- What is self-love?
A large number of people confuse self-love with self-dependence, unfortunately. In fact, self-love is about accepting yourself for who you really are, not bullying yourself & being okay in spite of being imperfect. Self-dependence means looking after your daily needs and wants, e.g., cooking a healthy meal for yourself, buying yourself a massage bed, etc.
I would argue that self-dependence is a part of self-love (at least it’s a basic form of self-love). However, the most important part of self-love is definitely loving yourself unconditionally & knowing your high value no matter what. That is self-love and core confidence. With self-love as well as core confidence, you will find real love in international dating in record time.
“When you give yourself unconditional self-love and work on your conversation skills, you will be more sociable and find a relationship via international dating faster.”
