Don’t worry about running out of things to say on the first date with a Ukrainian
woman because we are here to support you!
Give her an opportunity to prove herself.
Never put a woman on a pedestal. We are all equal. Your status isn’t lower than hers.
If you are nervous on the first date, you probably need a mindset shift: Instead of
thinking about “How can I impress her?”, you’d better ask yourself, “Is she the right
person for me?”
Therefore, while chatting with a Ukrainian woman on the first date, you may say this
to her, “Tell me what else there is to know about you.”
In other words, her beauty isn’t enough; you also need to know her personality and
character.
Another way to increase your perceived challenge is to say something along the lines
of, “Honestly, there is one major reason why I asked you out.” (Now you pause and
create some tension in the conversation.)
Then you explain why you asked her out. Make sure this reason is about an
important quality of hers so that she knows her attractiveness alone can’t keep your
attention, e.g., “I asked you out because while we were sending messages to each
other, I can see you are a great writer with a radiant inner world.”
That also means you have standards and confidence. You choose who you want to be
with – you have abundance. Why not create more curiosity on the date?
Add more intrigue to the date.
A fascinating or mysterious quality should be added to the first date with a Ukrainian
woman! For example, you can ask her, “As a dater, am I easy to read?”
This line creates flirtation and tension on the first date.
Another question that you can ask her is, “What’s your favorite book?” (Now she
knows you highly value knowledge, so she should prioritize learning and improve
herself!)
Ask her, “What’s the best thing that you’ve done this year?” (Now she wants to
impress you!)
If the first date ends in the cinema, you can ask her, “What’s your favorite line in the
movie?” after seeing a movie together. (Now she knows going to the movies isn’t just
about entertainment from your perspective – it’s also about being a thinker.)
But if the first date is simply a coffee or dinner date, you can ask her, “What’s the best
thing that has happened for you this week?” (It’s time to inject some positivity to the
interaction.) ��
“Because you are looking for a long-term relationship, you can even ask her,
‘What were you like growing up?’ – Now she knows you have high standards
because you are looking for a partner for a serious relationship – you would like to
know her personality traits.”
