How do you create attraction quickly and effectively? Compliments? Cuddles? Today I’m going to share the most powerful attraction and chemistry hack with you so that you can implement this strategy in your international dating journey. 😊
- The power of breaking rapport:
High-value men break rapport. When you’re breaking rapport, she doesn’t know if she can have you or not. This suspense makes her feel more attracted to you because your perceived value is higher.
Breaking rapport gets you on a high-value woman’s radar. Remember, high-value women are used to people wanting things from them and being nice to them. They are not used to people being dismissive or giving her a hard time, so when you do this, you get her attention. I’ll explain how to do that in the right way later.
Note that you can’t convey your attractive personality until you’ve been noticed by her, so her attention is paramount at the beginning. Also, breaking rapport creates tension in the dynamics. Now she wonders, “Does he love me or not?”/ “Does he even like me?” / “Do I have a chance with this high-value guy?”
When she begins to wonder whether she can have you, you have her attention and then you can convey your personality.
Now I’m going to show you exactly how to implement this strategy in the international dating arena.
- How to tactfully break rapport and build unstoppable attraction:
When you meet a woman, you can playfully say something along the lines of, “We won’t get along”. In this way, she doesn’t know whether you even like her or not. But because you are flirting with her, she feels the chemistry.
Next, you qualify her by asking questions such as “Can you cook?” and “What kind of books do you like reading?” When she answers your questions, you know you are making progress because you are implying, “You are gradually winning me over.”
Last but not least, you have to present your high standards by indicating, “I like you, but I don’t know whether we have compatible values.” Indeed, when you are willing to break rapport, you are chasing less, and she is investing more in the communication.
This is the uncomfortable truth: If you are selling yourself in dating, you are the low-value person. So, you have to become the buyer and let her sell herself to you (she is trying to get the rapport back after you break it.) Now you are in a significantly better position.
Here is the most important tip: When you break rapport, what you say has to be teasing in nature; you can’t have insulting comments. Don’t comment on things that she can’t change when you tease her. Your vibe must be flirtatious and fun. That’s how to break rapport correctly. 😉
“I hope you’ve enjoyed this international dating secret, and I wish real love!”
