When dating is leading you to a meaningful international relationship, you have to master various levels of interaction with a woman!

  • Level 1: teasing energy.

When you start a new relationship, you’d better begin with teasing/playful energy because you need to build chemistry and attraction quickly. At this stage, you should tell her more jokes, be more spontaneous and have more fun on every date.

A good sense of humor is always the best way to make someone interested in you because when a woman is seeing a man, she feels attracted to him if he makes her laugh authentically and frequently. In other words, you change a woman’s mind by changing her mood. You convince her by managing her feelings and emotions. When she feels good, she naturally associates dating you with positivity. In this way, she definitely looks forward to seeing you again and she wants to be with you in the long term.

If you aren’t very humorous, you can probably watch some comedy shows and learn something fun to talk about on each date.

  • Level 2: being vulnerable.

After building the initial chemistry and attraction, you can transition into the second level – being vulnerable, because this level creates a much deeper connection.

For example, you can send her a text message, “Indeed, we text each other so much. But honestly, I really miss your voice.” Then you call her.

Alternatively, you can call her directly and say, “I don’t have anything specific to talk about today. I just want to hear your voice.” Then you make the phone conversation brief. Note that most dates and phone calls shouldn’t be too long. Ideally, you should end a date within two hours and end a phone call within 20 minutes because you have to keep her interested and she needs something exciting to look forward to.

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  • Level 3: building a long-term vision together proactively.

You’ve been playful and vulnerable while communicating with her. Now the next level is to proactively build a long-term blueprint together.

On this level, you are supposed to create very deep trust and you know you have shared values. You are ready for a serious relationship that will last for a lifetime as your goal is to find true love via international dating.

Since both you and your girlfriend look forward to getting married one day, you can start to build a shared vision together. When you are at Level 3, you can talk about where you will live, how you will start a family and your future career plans. Discuss what family life looks like from your perspective and understand how she explains what family life should be. Always talk about whether you want children or not as well as how many children you would like to have after getting married.

As international dating might involve some cultural differences, you really need to clearly and cleanly communicate your standards, boundaries as well as expectations to your partner early on.

“In the international dating world, you have to know how to graduate the levels of interaction with your partner.”