I would argue that every successful man absolutely, positively has happiness because they have happy habits. They succeed in online dating as well.
Three happy habits:
Happy Habit #1: Embrace unfazeable stillness.
What does that mean? Well, basically, unfazeable stillness means being able to be calm and relaxed even in challenging situations. That is the prerequisite of being happy in general.
Happy Habit #2: Leverage the power of joy.
Successful men are happy men because they understand the power of joy. This can be watching a comedy show on Friday night, going to a party on Saturday afternoon or having a romantic date night on Wednesday.
Do something that makes you happy regularly and you’ll accumulate more and more happiness.
Happy Habit #3: Be fully present.
No matter what they do, successful men are always fully present. When they are working hard, they focus on their work. When they are spending time with their family and friends, their family and friends have their full attention.
How you can change your life:
Looking to change your life right now? There are several things you can do immediately and see some results in record time.
1. Stop questioning yourself.
Have you ever had similar experiences like this? – After leaving the house, you wonder, “Did I lock the door?” & After reconciling your bank accounts via the accounting software, you wonder, “Did I make a mistake?”Most things that you are worried about never happen. Here is the evidence: Because you worry about it, you avoided it. So, you should totally stop questioning yourself. This is so important in online dating, too.
2. Always have something exciting, something you look forward to.
Never underestimate the power of anticipation. In order to be motivated, upbeat and happy every day, you need something that you look forward to all the time. This can be a reward that you will get when you achieve your goal. It can also be a concert that you will go to next month. 😉
3. Change your life by degrees.
Changing your life overnight isn’t always realistic, but you can change your life by degrees. Let’s say you want to wake up earlier. Now you wake up at 9am every morning. Instead of waking up at 5am tomorrow morning, you should wake up at 8am tomorrow. Gradually, you will certainly change your life!
Focus on the big picture rather than small details.
Do you know what Gary Vaynerchuk, Kate Northrup and Michael Johnson (AKA the Mojo Master) have in common? All of them are big-picture people. In other words, they all focus on the big picture instead of small details that don’t make any real difference.
Visionary entrepreneurs understand that only the big picture truly matters and moves the needle forward. That’s why they delegate small details. And if they don’t delegate certain details, they just handle one detail once only– it’s done! Well, that’s because most small details don’t really matter.
If you have to deal with small details….
Not every entrepreneur is ready to delegate small details, so if you haven’t built a team yet, you probably have to deal with small details by yourself. Handling lots of small details might stress you out, but fortunately, there is an effective way to manage small details well:
You deal with one detail at a time!
If your vision doesn’t scare you a little bit, it’s not big enough.
I’m not saying you should be unrealistic and romantic when it comes to setting a goal. I mean your long-term vision is supposed to scare you just a little bit.
Let’s say you currently think your goal is to be the best in the industry in your local area. How about becoming the best in this industry in the entire country?
“Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss it, you will land among the stars.”