Many articles on the Internet talk about first-date questions that you should ask on the very first date with someone new, but I don’t encourage you to think about first-date questions too much, because it’s of vital importance not to overthink things to the point where you literally sound like you are interviewing a woman. When a Slavic woman feels like she has to answer a question correctly, she feels uncomfortable suddenly. Therefore, I’d like to offer you a different (and more effective) approach in this blog post.

  • The truth about first-date questions:

As I see it, questions are paramount; most individuals do not ask enough questions on the first date. But that doesn’t mean you should prepare a list of questions to ask her before the first date. I mean you would be well-advised to make your questions sound natural.

If you could do something that allows a Slavic woman to share things that she don’t often get to discuss (things that she is genuinely interested in), you have found the sweet spot – you need to hear what she is truly passionate about.

In other words, the focus is less about the first-date questions and more about the fact that she can be herself around you, which makes you really valuable in her world. Indeed, a woman falls in love with you because she likes who she can become when she is with you!

After the first date, this woman will realize that you two can interact on an emotional and intellectual level & talk about things that really matter to her instead of being asked the same boring first-date questions she often gets. Ideally, she needs to ask questions about you, too! What’s more, you should pay attention to conversational frequency: Make sure that the conversation on the first date doesn’t stay at the same frequency. If you receive an answer and immediately move on to the next question, the date becomes a fact-finding activity rather than an organic conversation. 

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Why you should follow energy on the first date:

Energy leads conversation on a great date. When you see her energy lifting while talking about a particular topic, it’s oftentimes because she really cares about that and it energizes her. Being high-value is showing real curiosity about her and being confident enough to be incredibly impressed by her. Being a high-value man is relating to a Slavic woman on an emotional and deep level while showing her that she is amazing because of what she loves. That is to say, you recognize yourself in what she is experiencing, so she feels less alone in this modern world. I do hope this article has helped you to gain a better insight into love and relationships.

 “Slavic women prefer authentic conversations rather than a fact-finding mission on the first date.”