Making an Eastern European woman open up to you

High-quality dates aren’t about going to upmarket restaurants or expensive cafes. Of course, a nice environment surely helps to some degree. But the quality of the conversation on the date is much more important.

Find a romantic environment.

When the environment is right, an Eastern European woman is more likely to open up because she feels more relaxed.

Therefore, when you are choosing the venue for a date, please remember to select a place where you can hear the conversation very clearly, e.g., a romantic restaurant, a relatively quiet coffeehouse, etc.

What’s more, the lighting of the venue should be soft and warm (yellow light). You’d better avoid noisy clubs and pubs.

It’s okay to go to a bar and dance with your partner, but that shouldn’t be the first date because the first date is supposed to be about understanding each other better. I think it’s better to take her to a nightclub to dance after the emotional connection has been built already.

Of course, a date doesn’t have to happen at one venue. After having a coffee in a café, you can take her to an artistic gallery or museum where you can continue the conversation with her. Sometimes changing venues gives you more opportunities to connect with the Eastern European woman.

Open up to her first, and then don’t judge her when she opens up to you.

If you would like to build an emotional connection with her, you can share a little bit of your vulnerabilities with her. She will feel closer to you psychologically provided she is a good person.

When she hears you talking about your vulnerabilities or insecurities, she will realize that it’s perfectly okay to talk about things like this on the date. As a result, she will also open up to you.

Now the most important part is your reaction. That means when she opens up to you and tells you something surprising, you can’t judge her. Just listen to her and show your understanding. If you judge her, she won’t open up to you anymore.

That is to say, you must make her feel safe whenever she opens up. This is the best way to create an honest culture and a safe environment in a romantic relationship.