A recent study shows that charisma is extremely powerful in dating and relationships: This doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with your looks because objectively good-looking men aren’t always charismatic. The good news is charisma is a learnable skill! So, today’s safe dating news is transformational – you’ll discover the art of being a charismatic guy.
- Fast-track to unstoppable charisma:
When you meet a woman that you like, please implement the following key ideas:
- At the end of your sentences, please lower the intonation of your voice. (This makes what you say sound deeper and more meaningful.)
- Pause for 2 seconds before you speak. (This gives you the best opportunity to create chemistry and attraction because during these two seconds, you can look at her lips, her nose and her eyes. I’m sure she has seen enough movies to understand what that means – tremendous chemistry.)
- Reduce how frequently and how quickly you nod during each conversation. (This makes her want to gain your approval.)
Don’t put a woman on a pedestal. Always remember that we are all equal. You are here to find out whether she respects your boundaries, meets your standards and loves you for who you truly are.
- Be present on each date.
“I’m always very, very nervous before going out for a date, especially the first date with a new woman,” says Tony, “What should I do?”
In fact, Tony’s experience is very common because many men have dating anxiety. Frankly, if you have dating anxiety, that usually means you are worried about how you are perceived – you are thinking about what she thinks about you!
Instead of being caught up in your own thoughts, please pay attention to what’s going on right now. When you exhibit solid presence, she feels respected, valued and listened to. Meanwhile, you feel calmer and more confident. As a result, you look much more charismatic!
According to a safe dating expert, a good conversationalist keeps the spotlight on the other person on the date and make that person feel great about themselves. Therefore, if you keep the spotlight on the lady and make her feel amazing, she will like you more.
“Research on safe dating indicates that there are three ways to deliver high value on a date – 1) You can make the date enjoyable and entertaining by telling more jokes and being funnier. 2) You can give interesting information about yourself and tell more stories. 3) You have to find a way to make her feel really good about herself and feel important.”
