I know this sounds a bit corny, but it’s the truth: The best security against anybody cheating, leaving or boredom ending a relationship is to take on the personal full responsibility of being better each day. (After online dating, you will start a long-term relationship, so please remember this key idea!)
- Never stop building the biggest asset in your life – yourself!
You are the No. 1 asset in your life. Hence, do make yourself more unique, more interesting, more human, more vulnerable and more inspiring so that the woman that you choose cannot resist being with you.
Online dating has boundaries and you must stick to these boundaries with a smile as well as self-assurance of ‘This is just who I am; this is what I want in a serious relationship.”
Always strive to be remarkable each day. Don’t forget that choosing to go all in in your love life is not negotiable.
What are you doing to improve yourself every single day?
Now let’s have a look at Samuel’s example:
Every morning, Samuel wakes up at about 6am without an alarm clock because he goes to bed quite early at night (and gets as much sleep as he needs). After a quick shower and a healthy breakfast, Samuel works on his side hustle from 7am to 8:30am. He goes to work at 8:40am because his workplace is near his home (he has a full-time job). After dinner, he works in his side hustle from 8pm to 10pm. He goes to bed before 11pm and sleeps for about 7 hours. Note that Samuel works on his own business early in the morning and works in his business late at night. The difference is every morning he checks his emails and does marketing for his side hustle (admin and logistics) & every night he does the actual work for his clients. On weekends, he does lots of washing and cleaning on Saturday morning; he reads at least one chapter of a book on Saturday afternoon & Sunday is a day without any plans – he can do his own business on Sunday if he wants to or he can hang out with his family or catch up with his friends if he likes. Of course, every night before he falls asleep, he would chat with someone on an online dating website to improve his love life. Currently, he has just started dating a Slavic woman that he met online.
- How are you going to improve yourself every day?
Obviously, Samuel has really good habits and improves himself all the time. I find Samual very inspiring, so I’ve decided to be more efficient and use a diary to make better plans. Indeed, time management is so key.
If you are still wondering how you can design a plan to improve yourself each day, please consider these ideas:
First of all, you have to know what you really want in life right now. Different stages in life have different priorities. If you are in your 30s and single, chances are you are looking for true love now. Therefore, your No. 1 priority right now is to join an online dating site and find a relationship. In that case, you would be well-advised to hone your dating skills by studying communication techniques.
Second, you may need to hire a mentor in real life or find mentors online. If you can afford to hire a mentor, you should totally do that (the earlier you hire a mentor, the faster you will get the benefits because results will come more quickly when you have a mentor in real life.) If you can’t afford to hire a mentor, you can find mentors on the Internet by studying online programs. Another easy way to find mentors is to read books that fascinates you because reading a good book is just like having an enlightening conversation with a mentor.
“Become the best version of yourself and live your best life today.”
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