When and how to say ‘I love you’ to an Eastern European woman

If you are wondering whether you should say ‘I love you’ to your Eastern European lady now, this blog post is definitely for you!

Are you making progress?

Frankly, if you are not sure whether you should say “I love you” to your Eastern European girlfriend, that probably means one of these two things: 1) the connection isn’t strong enough yet; 2) you are worried about whether she loves you as much as you love her.

As I see it, the right time to say ‘I love you’ is determined by how much you and your girlfriend invest in this relationship, what you are feeling as well as the length of time you’ve been together. Basically, the above-mentioned three elements tell you the quality of the emotional connection in this romantic relationship.

If you’re worried about whether your girlfriend loves you as much as you love her, that means you are holding in your feelings just because you don’t know how she will respond when you say “I love you”. In this case, overthinking is obviously in the way.

Honestly, if a relationship is right, ‘we both like each other’ is supposed to be a very easy part of a relationship. When you are truly excited about someone, you will eventually get to a point where you tell her that you love her.

Usually, when you start dating someone that you are genuinely attracted to, you should say “I like you” effortlessly. Then when the emotional connection is established, you can say “I adore you”. When you are actually in love with someone, it’s perfectly normal and totally okay to say “I love you” – in fact, this is expected. Clearly, you are making progress in your love life.

Truthfully, even if you are a very logical person, you should still be spontaneous, honest and romantic when it comes to love because an attractive guy is certainly a multidimensional guy. So, why not say “I love you” when you feel like saying it?

Do you know how you want to be loved?

As a matter of fact, a lot of people don’t even know how they want to be loved due to lack of self-awareness. I highly encourage you to find out exactly how you want to be loved and then communicate your standards to your Eastern European lady tactfully.

For instance, you can write a list of key & non-negotiable standards in your love life so that you can have 100% clarity for yourself. Every time when your girlfriend’s behavior meets your standards, you reward her good behavior by giving her a major compliment or taking her out for dinner. In this way, you are reinforcing her good behavior!

What’s more, you would be well-advised to have a solid & real awareness of how you would like to love. That means if you actually prefer the direct, candid and straightforward way to love someone, be sure to do exactly that & let her know that this is your way of expressing true love!