Why you should be a serious romantic in international dating

A serious romantic loves a healthy, meaningful and long-term relationship that lasts for a lifetime. When you decide to meet someone who also wants a sustainable, long-lasting and happy relationship, you will attract a high-quality candidate because everything starts from your mindset. In other words, your mindset determines your reality in international dating.

⦁ Authenticity is so key.

If you’re a truly serious romantic that likes the idea of madly & deeply falling in love and you really want to be absolutely special & in terms of dating, you are extremely romantic, do be romantic and excited, because that’s simply who you are. When you see her again on the second date, you can say, “I’m very excited to see you again” – now she understands that you aren’t worried about what she says back to you – you are just super romantic & you mean what you say; you say what you mean. That’s an attractive quality.

Never be casual and cool as you are a serious romantic. Just be super romantic in everything you say and do. Authenticity will bring the beautiful relationship that you deserve.

Please don’t play hard to get because hard to get is the biggest lie in dating and relationships. Women only chase men who are hard to get if these women are actually addicted to the chase itself. High-value women prefer men who definitely like them back and know what they want. Therefore, never be hard to get; just be hard to keep because your standards are high & you expect your partner to deliver. That is to say, whenever you are on a date with her, she feels the warmth, happiness, excitement and positivity. Meanwhile, she knows that if she doesn’t deliver, all of the warmth, happiness, excitement and positivity will be gone. Hence, she is aware of the fact that she must meet your standards. This is a way to train your girlfriend properly so that she will fully understand how to be a great girlfriend.

⦁ Be charmingly candid when you communicate your needs.

No one is a mind reader, so you should start to be candid in how you communicate your needs in international dating. A switched-on guy uses charming candor in a relationship so that he is able to communicate his needs effectively: You can literally train your girlfriend about the right behaviors that you prefer by telling her when you like something that she does in every aspect of your relationship with her. When you clearly state what you want, do it in an endearing way.

If you’ve been too passive in the past when it comes to communication in your love life, now you should start being more assertive about things you really want in international dating. For example, you can positively reinforce the right behavior when you see it in your relationship by giving her a compliment or more affection: Let’s say you want her to spend every Sunday with you. Each time she spends a Sunday with you, you would be well-advised to give her more affection and a compliment – this is positive reinforcement, which will make her want to do that even more in the future.