In dating and relationships, emotional intelligence is paramount. Your ability to read women, figure out what’s going on and give an effective response is so key. Your emotional intelligence ensures a safe dating experience! ❤️

  • Is she investing in the interactions with you?

Some women may give men shit tests while talking with men, so a lot of men simply give it up whenever that happens, which is sad.

Interestingly, if a woman gives you a test, it’s actually a good sign because it means she is thinking about this – she is investing in the communication with you. In other words, she cares! 😊

When it comes to tests on a date, my advice for you is to just pass them! 😉

Basically, as long as a woman is investing in the conversation with you, it’s a positive sign. A green flag.

Clearly, that’s a typical example of having emotional intelligence in dating & relationships, which is a prerequisite of safe dating.

Please note that you have to master the art of flirting with women because that’s exactly how to pass every test on dates.

  • Have you been surprised?

If her reaction surprises you, that’s actually another great sign because that means you are learning something new.

Women aren’t very predictable because women are all different. Nevertheless, there are some patterns that you can master if you are keen to understand female psychology.

In terms of pattern recognition, there are two ways to improve this skill:

  • You would be well-advised to read more books on this topic. Personally, I read a lot (probably at least 1 book per month over a few decades). I always have a few eBooks ready for me to read on my Kindle app on my smartphone. Also, I have a library app which is full of eBooks as well. What’s more, my study is my favorite place at home because that’s where my bookshelves are. And this year, I’m looking forward to two new books which will be published soon (both books are written by my favorite authors). Anticipation is so exciting. 🌃
  • You have to go out more and meet more people. Reading books and learning theories can never replace first-hand experience in life. Hence, apart from reading books, you must go out more often so that you can meet more people and practice your emotional intelligence frequently. I usually go out at least twice a week just to enjoy an active social life. ⭐

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