In this digital era, online dating is commonplace. But many people have dating fatigue nowadays because they are overwhelmed by too many options. Now I’d like to talk about how to do the best you can in this regard.

  • If you are doing your best, there is nothing to worry about.

Personally, I can proudly say that I’ve been doing my best in pretty much every area of my life. When I was in my early 20s, I had three stressors: finances, studies and relationship. But within 2 years, I solved all of those problems and moved on with no baggage: I fixed the finances, got my advanced degree and successfully received a divorce certificate from the court. I feel absolutely free. 

As an online writer, I sit at my desk every single day. Because my mum lives with me, she asked me whether I can finish my writing task for the month or why I would stay up late at night towards the end of the month. My answer to her question was I need more quiet time at home, so she should give me more space to focus on my work. She understands why I sometimes can only do my work when she goes to bed at night. I can confirm that I’m doing my best creatively as well. 

The real reason I’m not worried about what other people are thinking about me is because I’ve done my best already. This is all I can do with what I know. There are flaws because I’m not perfect, and that’s okay.

Likewise, if you are exploring online dating, you have to try your best, so you won’t have any regret.

  • How to do your best in online dating:

First and foremost, you need a good dating profile with great photos. Hire a photographer if you need to. Consult with a dating coach if it’s necessary. Invest in your dating skills and your image when you join a dating website.

Second, it’s your responsibility to approach women on a dating site. In fact, the dating website will probably send some suitable candidates to you automatically anyway. So, it’s up to you when it comes to starting conversations with these women online, and then you will see which person is the right woman for you.

Third, you would be well-advised to build the connection proactively. Be authentic and honest. Have a video/audio chat with the lady you are attracted to. Organize a trip to see her in person if she lives in another country.

The right person is also looking for you right now!

“You will accept yourself, find your person and achieve success if you do your best.”