If you are looking for an international relationship, please be aware of the following four mistakes that some men tend to make in international dating & relationships. Avoid all of them, please. 😉
- Mistake 1: Neediness
A woman can smell your neediness from a mile away.
If you are needy, you might have your standards violated & your boundaries crossed easily because you don’t even have independence emotionally.
Without emotional independence, you don’t have a life outside of your romantic relationship. But in actuality, your relationship is only a part of your life; you should have other things going on in your life as well, e.g., your career, your family, your friends, your hobbies, etc.
In an international relationship, it’s very important to maintain your independence. 😊
- Mistake 2: Laziness
When you meet a lady from Eastern Europe, you know she is very presentable, so you prioritize your grooming as well as fashion and take her to a nice restaurant for a dinner date.
Note that when you start a relationship with her, you have to remain presentable and pleasant. If you assume that she already likes you (so you don’t need to wear good clothes anymore), you might just sit on the couch with her all the time while watching TV & eating junk food – This probably shouldn’t be your typical date night for the rest of your life.
- Mistake 3: Absence of trust
If a woman doesn’t trust you, she can’t see herself accessing your value even though you are a high-value guy.
Let’s say you are a 10 out of 10 in terms of value, but when she doesn’t trust you, she thinks she can only access 4 out of 10 when it comes to the value that you can offer. In this case, a guy who is able to offer 5 out of 10 becomes higher value compared to you.
Therefore, you have to make sure that she actually trusts you. Please don’t do things that ruin the trust in your relationship.
Of course, I understand that almost everyone makes mistakes. However, if you have built enough shared experiences and sufficient history with a woman, even if you make a mistake, she can still trust you. But if you make a mistake when you are only 1 week in a new relationship, she won’t trust you.
- Mistake 4: Picking a woman based on her resume.
Okay. This woman looks great on paper: She has an advanced degree. She is an international lawyer. She is only 29 years old. She looks like a model. She comes from a good family.
If you choose her only because of the above-mentioned factors, you are literally picking a woman based on her resume, which is risky.
The best way to choose a woman is to evaluate how you actually feel when you spend time with her. I know this sounds abstract, so I’d like to make it more specific. Please let me explain.
A real relationship is the reality you get when you are with someone on a daily basis. The right woman is someone that makes you happy and satisfied because she respects, appreciates and loves you. She is intelligent, kind and generous. These qualities don’t necessarily have anything to do with her resume.
By the way, if you would like to have a healthy international relationship, you would be well-advised to remember that in a good relationship, your partner’s expectations must match the reality that she actually gets. So, when you start a relationship with a woman, she needs to see what you are truly like in your daily life rather than a PR version of you at the beginning.
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