In order to help you succeed in your online dating journey, today I’d like to share with you typical mistakes that you must avoid in dating & relationships.

Mistake 1: Statements sound like questions

When a lot of men are chatting with women via video/audio chat online, their statements tend to sound like questions because they use a rising tone at the end of a statement.

This is a low-value behavior because a rising tone at the end of a statement makes the statement sound like a question, which indicates uncertainty.

Uncertainty is a low-value quality in men, so you must avoid that!

Be certain. Be confident.

Mistake 2: Ask too many questions.

When a man asks too many questions, he sounds indecisive, especially if he asks his girlfriend which restaurant they should go to for a dinner date – that only makes her wonder why he can’t make a decision.

Remember: You have to make plans for the date because you are the leader in this relationship. Online dating requires you to be a confident leader. In a romantic relationship, as a man you either lead or be misled. 

Mistake 3: Agree with her all the time.

If you always agree with her, she might begin to wonder why you don’t have your own opinion.

You must have your own opinion, although you shouldn’t become opinionated. This trait can’t be overdone.

So, when you actually disagree with her, you’d better politely tell her your honest opinion. A good woman would definitely appreciate your honesty.

Of course, if you really have an opinion, ideally, you need to back it up with your reasoning or rationale. This is a way to show her that you are a wise man!

Mistake 4: Ask for permission when it’s not even necessary.

Yes, there are certain scenarios where you should totally ask for her permission.

But in most situations, you don’t really need to ask for her permission. Let’s say you meet a woman online and she lives in a different country, so you want to visit her. In this case, you don’t have to say, “Would you like me to visit you next month?” Instead, you’d better say, “I’m planning on visiting you next month.” And then you observe her response so you can make a decision quickly. 

Note that if you join the most reputable online dating website SimplyDating.com, you will be able to meet single women from Ukraine. Better still, Simply Dating team will help you to organize your international trip as well as your first date with your lady.

 

 “Don’t be try-hard. Be high-value.”