You can have the best date in the world without realizing that you and this person are actually incompatible because compatibility is different from having a good time on a date. I would argue that compatibility is what makes a relationship last.

  • Dating is the only situation in which both parties are selling and buying at the same time.

Yes, you go out for a date in order to find true love. You want to be loved now. But at the same time, you also need to find out whether she is the right person for you. On the first date, she hasn’t proven herself yet.

At the beginning, you are still window-shopping. You don’t know if she is the right woman or not. Therefore, it’s very important to have some high-quality dates before starting an official relationship with someone.

The ability to relax and have fun on a date is paramount. However, you shouldn’t forget your boundaries, standards and priorities. When all of these are established, you can totally relax and have more fun on the date. 😊

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  • Your boundaries, standards and priorities determine your ability to identify compatibility.

Self-knowledge is key. It’s about clearly knowing your boundaries, standards and priorities. Sadly, a lot of men don’t know any of these about themselves because they are desperately looking for love. Yet desperation is extremely unhelpful in dating and relationships.

When you are fully aware of your boundaries, standards and priorities, you wouldn’t ignore red flags on each date. That is to say, your boundaries, standards and priorities provide you with the essential guidelines – they make you notice green flags as well as red flags on the date.

What’s important to you? Please write down your complete answer and before you go out for a date next time, you should totally have a look at your answer so that you will be a winner in dating and relationships. 😉

Every man needs clear boundaries, high standards and solid priorities when it comes to dating and relationships as every man deserves a happy, healthy and sustainable relationship. If you are also looking for real love that will last for a lifetime, please do check out this blog every week, for we publish very helpful articles written by experts frequently here.