Nowadays there is a lot of dating advice for men on the Internet, but how do we know what kind of advice can help us and what kind of advice can hinder our progress?

  • There are three types of dating advice for men.

In reality, in general, there are 3 types of dating advice:

  1. True information
  2. False information
  3. Useless information

You have to have the wisdom to identify true and useful information that can help you succeed in dating and relationships.

Avoid false information and ignore useless information if you can.

Now how can we tell if a piece of information is true and useful?

I’d like to give you some principles:

   A) Find out real evidence, i.e., proof of expertise that indicates the source is reliable.

B) Learn from positive, happy and satisfied role models. If a dating coach is negative, sad and angry, you will only learn how to complain from them.

C) Simply experiment with some new ideas and do what truly works for you.

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  • Take full responsibility for your own success.

Ultimately, it’s up to you who you would like to learn from and what kind of material you want to study. Now I’m just going to give you some resources/ideas which might support you in this journey:

  1. Borrow dating books from the library. This is a low-risk, high-reward approach because the library gives you free access to a wealth of valuable information. If a book isn’t good, you can return the book immediately. If a book is great, be sure to take some notes!
  2. Use Kindle app on your smartphone. In the grand scheme of things, buying books shouldn’t be a big expense that you need to worry about. You are not buying a car or a house in this case; you are only buying several books. Investing in your education is totally worthwhile. I recommend Kindle app on the phone because it’s easier – you probably don’t want to carry heavy books while traveling; it’s much easier to read eBooks on your phone.
  3. Join an online program. If you are serious when it comes to improving your dating skills quickly, why not join an online course and learn from a mentor?
  4. Read blog articles about dating & relationships. These are free resources that you can easily access online. Don’t forget that SaferDating.com has a pretty good blog as well.

“The right dating advice for men has to be relevant, straightforward and practical.”