In order to simplify today’s dating advice for men, I’m going to summarize these actionable tips here – 3 steps only!
- Step 1: Eliminate beliefs that don’t work for you.
Which limiting beliefs do you have right now?
Perhaps you can’t answer this question due to lack of awareness. But you can find the answer by reading self-help books, hiring a mentor or consulting with a therapist.
If you have been reading this blog for some time, chances are you are aware of your limiting beliefs already, so it’s time to acknowledge their existence and then think about what to do next.
For instance, Alexander has two limiting beliefs: 1) He is an introvert, so he can’t talk to women. 2) He is too analytical to learn social skills.
But actually, many introverts are great conversationalists because they are better at having deep & meaningful one-on-one conversations. In contrast, extraverts tend to be better when they interact with large groups of people. Therefore, introverts definitely have an advantage when it comes to building strong connections.
Also, if someone is analytical, that usually means this person is quite intelligent. As a result, this individual is more likely to learn social skills really well if they are willing to find a mentor.
- Step 2: Engage with people you meet.
Don’t wear headphones when you go out. Next time you meet a lady in the elevator, give her a genuine compliment, e.g., “Your necklace is beautiful.”
When you go to the coffee shop and stand in the queue, give a compliment to the lady standing behind you, e.g., “You look so elegant.”
If the coffee shop has no queue, flirt with the female barista, e.g., “I’m sure the coffee tastes better because of you.”
Remember, this habit alone will change your love life because some women will keep the conversation going and you’ll be able to get dates. So, the best dating advice for men is to give one compliment to a woman every day.
- Step 3: Improve your skills.
As you are practicing your social skills on a daily basis, you can improve your skills over time. For example, you may study an online program about communication skills or dating skills. Then based on what you’ve learned, you adjust what you do and get better!
“If you enjoy reading this blog post, you may want to check out other articles about dating advice for men on this site! Are you starting from Step 1 today? Please write a comment and let me know.”
