When it comes to international dating, there are some myths that have become quite popular on the Internet nowadays. So, let’s explore these together and find out the truths.

  • Myth A: If I keep sending her signals, she will eventually notice me.

Not true. As a man, you have to do more than holding a few milliseconds of eye contact to get her attention. You are supposed to do more because you are a guy.

  • The truth:

Men should be more proactive and chase women. Don’t worry about rejections. If you are doing it right, you should be rejected because when nobody rejects you, that means you are only reaching for the low-hanging fruit & haven’t realized your potential yet. When someone rejects you, at least you know you’ve tried your best, so you can sleep at night. What should keep you awake at night is knowing you didn’t try your best.

  • Myth B: If she doesn’t give me a clear signal, she is not interested.

This is not true. Many Eastern European women are shy and introverted, so they need more encouragement from men.

  • The truth:

Assume every woman likes you and is interested in you. When you have this assumption, you look more charismatic and confident immediately. You need this mindset shift if you are looking to boost your perceived attractiveness instantly.

Eastern European women

  • Bonus tips:
  • You have to become proactive because only you can manage your own love life. All of our life is made up of habits. How often do you log in on an international dating website each week to do something for your love life?
  • You must have defined and specific rituals such as sending at least one message to a lady on an international dating site each day – rituals should have the right frequency and intensity. Rituals are what actually get us to achieve our goals. Ordinary things done consistently produce extraordinary results. Examples of rituals: A) Read a book about human dynamics, communication, dating and relationships every month. B) Use a new technique that you’ve learned from books every day.
  • Ask yourself these questions before finding your ideal Eastern European lady: A) Where do you currently go to meet women? B) What type of women are you looking for? – Identify their characteristics and values. C) What does your ideal candidate do with her spare time?
  • Making an effort VS making an intelligent effort: Joining a random dating site is making an effort; joining a trusted international dating website where you know you will meet the type of ladies you want is making an intelligent effort.
  • If you are an introvert and you would like to practice your social muscles, you can try new things, learn new skills and socialize in new places each weekend. This is very important because it gets you out of your comfort zones, expands your social circle and helps you practice your conversation skills, thereby making you a more exciting and attractive guy.
  • When you practice your social skills in different settings, make sure you maintain eye contact with people you are talking to. Pay attention to your facial expression and your body language (you can practice this in front of a mirror at home before going out).
  • When you talk to a stranger in a social context, you can say, “Excuse me, what muffin would you recommend in this coffee shop?” or “Are you a professor?” or “Are you Italian?” These can break the ice easily.

“When you go to a social occasion, you can use observation to break the ice – just say ‘the music is so good’.”