Before you date a Slavic woman, you have to grow out of a fixed mindset

Over the years, I’ve grown out of many things because circumstances change and my goals change, too. Sometimes when I feel stuck due to a certain situation at work or in life, I would do something a bit different, e.g., reading a new book and wearing a new outfit. In this way, I get some kind of inspiration immediately, so it’s also a good way for me to grow out of things! Now speaking of dating Slavic women, you really have to grow out of a fixed mindset if you have one!

I can’t stand motivational speakers, but the mindset is actually important.

Don’t get me wrong. I don’t have anything against motivational speakers. I’m just not a fan.

However, I do acknowledge that the mindset is very, very important because it’s the foundation for everything.

Therefore, I don’t wait until a major breakup happens or being fired by my boss… and then start working on my mindset. I work on my mindset regularly and proactively: Every day I listen to an inspiring podcast before I get up. This is a highly effectively way for me to overcome any fixed mindset and build my growth mindset which is absolutely paramount.

Also, once a year, I study an online program about personal development, thereby improving my mindset on a much higher level.

Why you need a growth mindset:

Slavic women are high-value ladies, so they don’t lack options in life. That means you have a lot of competitors out there. Indeed, almost every dating website has more men than women these days; as a result, you really need to be a growth-driven guy who highly values education and personal development in general.

The best way to develop a growth mindset is to set goals for yourself. Usually, I set 3 goals for the next six months because I don’t set goals for the next five years – setting goals for the next five years won’t change what’s happening next Thursday, but setting goals that should be achieved in the next six months will change what’s happening next Thursday.

For example, one of my goals is to lose 5 kilos within six months. Therefore, my daily rituals include going to the gym in the morning, sticking to a healthy diet at all times and getting enough sleep at night. Because I implement my daily rituals consistently, I’m sure that I will achieve my realistic goal!

The second way to cultivate a growth mindset is to learn from someone who already has a growth mindset. You may hire a mentor if you can afford that because that is the fast-track to success. But if you can’t afford a mentor, you can still learn for free. For instance, there are many free resources on the Internet that can teach you things. YouTube is a great resource that I use almost every single day.

Another way to foster a growth mindset is to read books regularly. I always treat myself to some good books when I feel that I should learn something or improve a certain area in my life.

By the way, if you are keen to improve your dating skills so that you can date and keep a Slavic woman, I would highly recommend the following books: