Should you have a joint bank account with your partner? (How to date safely)
Sebastian and Dana have been dating for a year, and now they are thinking about starting a long-term relationship. Because Sebastian knows I’m writing a blog about how to date safely, he would like to hear my advice on this topic. “How do you feel about joint bank accounts in relationships?” Sebastian asks me, “Should couples merge their bank accounts? Or should modern couples keep them separate nowadays?” You can [...]
Safe dating in the internet dating era: How to tactfully react to ghosting
According to a recent survey, ghosting is the most common issue that online daters are dealing with these days. My friend Charlie says he doesn’t know how to react when a woman begins to ghost him, e.g., he talks with the woman the day before & everything is fine, yet she doesn’t reply even when Charlie asks whether something is wrong. Charlie needs some advice and he has decided that [...]
How to be deeply confident on the first date with a Slavic woman
“I’m not confident enough whenever I go out for a date with a woman,” says Adam, “I’ll ask a Slavic woman out for a date next week. Help!” Are you here to impress her or to assess the connection? Adam’s challenge is faced by a lot of men because in this day and age, many men use smartphones and computers to communicate with others all the time – their social [...]
How to prepare a good conversation piece for international dating
Our research shows that the No. 1 challenge that men face in the dating space is to keep the conversation going. It seems that men find it quite difficult to make conversations interesting and engaging when they are on dates. Therefore, I’d like to share with you my biggest secret regarding conversation skills: amazing conversation is usually simply amazing storytelling. Why you should practice telling a story: I’d like you [...]
Safer dating dynamics: Are your needs met?
“I live in America. The lady that I’ve been dating for almost two years lives in Europe. We see each other every 3 months. However, if something comes up, she would cancel. Now I’m going to talk to her about this, but I’m worried. I guess everything works out pretty well till I begin to make waves. That’s why I’m concerned,” says Eli, “Can you help me?” Don’t devalue your [...]
How to approach online dating without dating fatigue
“These days dating sometimes feels like looking for a job as internet dating is the primary way to meet other single people nowadays,” says Martin, “Frankly, I love the organic experience of meeting someone by chance as well as the unplanned magical experiences that follow. How can I be more playful and open? I want to prevent dating fatigue.” Don’t overemphasize what each date has to mean to you. Here is [...]
Safer dating advice for high-value men: What’s your attachment style?
As a safer dating advice blog, we are here to offer you relevant and helpful insights into the modern dating scene. Today this blog article is about attachment styles in the modern dating climate. 3 attachment styles: According to the book Attached, there are 3 attachment styles in general: 1) Anxious attachment style – someone who always wonders if they are loved by their partner as well as whether their [...]
What is the greatest paradox of dating and relationships?
Bill is dating an avoidant woman now. Based on the misaligned values, the way she treats him and the amount of immaturity, Bill knows she is not the right person for him. However, the women who treat him really well are of no interest to Bill. Now Bill wants to know why he can’t find a woman who checks all the boxes (stable, respectful, honest and mature) while making his [...]