Bill is dating an avoidant woman now. Based on the misaligned values, the way she treats him and the amount of immaturity, Bill knows she is not the right person for him. However, the women who treat him really well are of no interest to Bill. Now Bill wants to know why he can’t find a woman who checks all the boxes (stable, respectful, honest and mature) while making his heart skip a beat at the same time?!
- Don’t confuse bad behavior with a woman being a challenge!
In Bill’s situation, he is confusing bad behavior with a lady being a challenge. What he wants is to be challenged in the right ways, i.e., someone that can stimulate him, as it sounds like the women who treat him well feel too safe and too unexciting from Bill’s perspective. If you are also in Bill’s situation, I’m pretty sure this blog post will give you some helpful advice.
Frankly, the biggest paradox of dating and relationships is you are looking for a woman who can give you a sense of security whilst making you feel like you are also challenged at the same time.
In fact, Bill doesn’t want the avoidant woman. She simply has certain qualities that Bill is attracted to. As a result, Bill would be well-advised to rewire his brain and then realize that her treatment of him makes her a low-value woman that doesn’t deserve Bill at all.
Realistically, a high-value woman doesn’t do these things because she would support you and challenge you. Meanwhile, she would be able to lovingly call you out when you are not meeting her standards in life. That’s the right woman. There are good people everywhere, so please don’t forget that you are surrounded by amazing opportunities that may lead to a very happy and satisfying relationship in the future. All you need to do is to be open-minded and try more new experiences that will give you an expansive life. You never know who you will meet.
- How to live an expansive life that generates unlimited opportunities:
When you do something unusual/extraordinary, you will inevitably have new experiences that may expand your outlook. Indeed, whenever you try something new, something different, you are experimenting with a new way to approach life. That being said, you don’t necessarily have to do anything extremely exciting or wild. In fact, you simply need to do things that are different from what you usually do in your daily life. Of course, if you are creative, bold and brave, you can do more!
What about these activities:
- Drive to a town nearby and have lunch at a restaurant that you haven’t been to before.
- Enroll in an online course that teaches you something exciting. When you learn something that makes you curious, you are broadening your horizon. That’s why it’s very important to learn something new.
- Read a book which is outside of the topics that you are familiar with.
- Join a dating website and start at least 3 new conversations every day.
- Hire a dating coach that can give you honest feedback and eye-opening advice as well as helpful support.
When you meet more people and hone your dating skills, you will have more opportunities for dating and relationships.
“Life is wonderful. There are always endless exciting things for you to explore. When you are experiencing new activities, you are generating lots of opportunities for dating and relationships. That’s how you find love organically.”
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