How to increase your value and attract an elegant Ukrainian lady

Success is not really about how many skills you possess; it’s all about how you combine and leverage what you are good at! So, let’s focus on how you can make your advantages work for you and marry a high-quality Ukrainian lady.

If you are a learner…

Firsts of all, you would be well-advised to read men’s fashion magazines and get some inspiration. Grooming is something you can get started today and it’s easy to do. Apart from reading GQ, you can even read Cosmopolitan and look at what kind of men’s style attracts women!

Then you can select several male celebrities’ styles and directly copy their styles. Note that women from Ukraine like stylish guys.

In PR, this technique is called ‘stealing and building’, and you can use it to your advantage, too!

Another idea is to visit some high-end clothing stores and observe the current trend. For example, you can go to Hugo Boss and Armani and check out what’s in now. And then you may go to Zara or H&M to buy clothes that look similar!

It is said that a guy is the sum of his influences. That means you may even combine different elements from different role models & build your own style.

How to avoid pitfalls:

First, please don’t overinvest in a woman simply because you like her so much.

Overinvesting in a lady is a pitfall as when you invest too much on a date, you are literally lowering your own value. You should give her sufficient space in the interaction so she can invest in you, too. A lot of men are very nervous on a date. Consequently, they overcompensate by talking a lot – they are afraid of awkward silence.

But you are an empowered man, so you should totally take a step back & deliberately create certain silent moments. Now the Ukrainian lady can invest in you and talk more! Note that it’s not your duty to fill each silence; she is supposed to talk more on the date. You should learn how to listen to her. Just enjoy the ebb & flow of the conversation with a woman from Ukraine, allowing for a change in dynamics and direction.

Second, when you are on a date, please do not talk about your ex!

Talking about your ex is a pitfall on a date. If you tell your date that your ex is a good woman, your date might feel that she is not good enough for you. If you tell your date that your ex is a bad woman, your date may wonder whether you are too mean or not. As a consequence, talking about your ex isn’t a smart move on a date.

Well, if she begins to talk about her ex, that’s not bad for you as now you are able to find out key information about this lady, i.e. her attitude towards dating & relationships, her belief system, and her values. These are very useful in the long term, even though her ex is irrelevant. Therefore, you need to find those out sooner.

When the lady finishes talking about her dull ex, she will probably ask you about your previous relationships. You just say this to her, “My ex is slightly boring and I can’t really remember a lot about that relationship. Would you like another cup of coffee?” Yes, you’d better change the subject when it’s necessary on a date with a Ukrainian lady.